My Mom is 92 yrs. old & has been living with me for 14yrs. now! She can barely hold herself up with her walker to get from point A to B. She is in constant pain with her hip that is bone on bone! Mom decided against the hip replacement and lives on Norco to control the pain! I'm very stressed out as her caregiver & would like my sister to get more involved. When I asked her to help me with the decision making re: Mom, she told me that was my issue & doesn't want to get involved anymore!
Would appreciate your feedback on this situation!
I agree with Pam, FF and Blannie, all of them, one way or another. On a slightly more consoling note, though, since your sister hasn't been involved for so long, what insight or expertise could she possibly contribute? - your judgement is going to be infinitely superior, and you should have confidence in it.
What are your options for ongoing care for your mother? Does she have a good medical team you can discuss them with? And what is your mother's view?