He (90) made a premature decision to discuss savings which are being used for his long-term care. They will run out in a few months, no will or POA. Should I seek legal protection beyond those provided by law in the state I reside in? I am terribly stressed and close to burnout in the day-to-day care and I am 80.
Is this the subject his daughter is challenging you on? What to do when the money runs out?
In any case, an Elder Law attorney can be a huge help in planning for the future, as well as seeing that your role is respected.
And while you are at the Attorney's, get yourself a Power of Attorney, a Will, and a Medical Directive so that your children will know what you final wishes might be health wise.