My mom passed away late January. She was my best friend my whole life. Afterwards I end up moving with my 84 year old grandmother who was living with my mother. Well its been a few months and we were both starting to look up. Than two days after mothers day my grandmother fell and broke her hip. Now she is in a nursing facility to recover. These two ladies are the only family I have. I still have not coped with the passing of my mother and now my grandmother is not doing good. How do I stay positive when Im about to lose all my family within a couple of months from eachother?
Many of the folks on this site are in a similar situation or will be soon. It's a hard fact of life that we all die. Being positive might be too much to ask of yourself at this time. You will simply never be the same but you will survive. I encourage you to go for grief counseling. Attend a group. It's very hard to recover alone. Don't make major life decisions for at least a year. Come on this site and run any issues you have by the AC community. We will help you.
How is your GM doing tonight? Was she able to have surgery on her hip?
Let us know how she is doing. Don't worry about the future. Just get through tonight and see how GM is going tomorrow. Come back and let us know.