My mum got diagnosed with dementia when she was 48, 4 years later she's a lot worse, she's an early riser sometimes getting up at 4/5 Im up at half 6 which is pretty early anyway , sometimes she's still in bed other times she's not , if she's up on her own she'l manage having a wee but then I've noticed after that she thinks she's not on the toilet and panics so stands up thus poo going everywhere , in her hands down her legs etc I'm only 21 and got to deal with that :( tried her with nappies but she just pulls them down, anyone got any advice?
Of course she pulls down the disposable underwear, that's what you do when you go to the toilet. Are you saying she does at other times too?
By the way, invest in latex, disposable gloves and keep them by her toilet to wear during the cleanup.