I fear this means she should not be in house 24/7 alone. My sister is 82, undergoing 8 wks chemo and radiation....for lung cancer...lots of prayers needed. Her stubborn ways have seen her thru cancer three times and she has four daughters all involved. I am the warm body in the house when she is alone.......yet allowed no questions or input. I am 73 basically healthy except painful knee.......here is my question.....how do I support yet not hide things I see that they don't that I fear means she should not be in house 24/7 alone....I will be here 5 months when I return home as I fear losing my apt in fla where I live as it is hid and to lose means a 3 to 5 yr waiting list for another...I my family is spread from men to pa to fla but there are approx. 20 adult relatives here in her family while I have very little back up here and in Fla....my health is way better in fla then in north especially winters.ANY IDEAS.