My parents are in their 90's and still living independently, all I need to do right now is just drive them where ever they need to be.
Back four years ago I had cancer, major surgery, yada, yada, yada, and I never told my parents because Dad was still recovering from a heart attack. I was afraid such news would be traumatic to them since I am their only child and they are still "helicopter parents", even though I am pushing 70 years old. Believe me, the helicopting can be very stressful, even I getting a common cold sends them into a panic.
Thank goodness I wasn't needed as their "driver" until a couple of years after my surgery when they both stopped driving. I was the master of excuses for not driving on some days due to exhaustion and side effects of the meds... usually said I had to work late at the office.
Should I tell them, but just shove this information under the rug for their own peace of mind?
It's kind of tough when you can't share your problems with your folks (for me at least) but when I've tried, my mom just has a very flat affect (she doesn't have much of a response) and it's more painful than not telling her.