94 MIL, we just got her moved to ALF. And that was a big step. We are working at getting her to take her meds for high blood pressure and her breast cancer. Over the years we have noticed that she has been showing the 8 symptoms of alzheimer/dementia. With her age, along with the big move and the fact she doesn't like Dr's. Should we try and get her to see geriatric psychiatry for a more accuracty diagnoses or just let it go? I'm wondering is the problem might be her diet or some other problem.
I do understand about being sick of being tested and poked and prodded. Mom gets to that point too because she has a multitude of serious health issues, and it can be very challenging to know what to do. But when we suggested this new neurologist, she jumped at the opportunity.
Hang in there!
Helen
Good Luck....
So, what would change if you had an official diagnosis? Well, if it turns out that some of the 8 symptoms you have noticed for years are due to something treatable, like a vitamin deficiency, that could lead to an improved quality of life.
And if you get an "official" diagnosis of dementia (Alzheimer's or some other type), there may be some treatments available, depending on the type of dementia and how far it has progressed. For example, Aricept might be tried.
Another benefit of having a specific diagnosis rather than just accepting that MIL is "not quite herself," is that you then have a better idea of what to expect. If you read up on her diagnosed condition you are less likely to be blindsided as new behaviors occur, and you can get ideas from reading and from other people how best to cope with the behavior. This benefits you and also MIL.
If she has dementia. there is no cure. There are often treatments that can help with the symptoms, but knowing for sure that she has dementia won't change the fact that she has it.
Is it worth getting your MIL, who hates doctors, to see a specialist to get an official diagnosis? Would the potential benefits outweigh her objections? That is a judgement call that only you and her family can make. In my opinion, yes, it might provide some benefit. I'd try to arrange it. But I also would understand and support a decision not to bother.
My warm wishes go with you as you struggle with this caretaking decision.