So I'm taking care of an elderly person that can't walk and I have to do everything for him well when it comes to taking care of him, his elderly wife continue putting me down and telling me I'm doing it wrong. I'm wasteful when I'm doing everything I post to do then she demands me to clean up when I'm trying to care for her husband thshe talks to me like I'm a child when I don't do what she demands she talks about me to everybody in Spanish I explained to her that I'm here for her husband's care not hers she told me she can do better job then me I'm tired of this verbal abuse I'm far from home and her family is close I'm here until Friday what do I do
And yes, she will gossip to others trying to gain sympathy so that others will feel sorry for her, and not view her her as a none caring wife.
Do your job to the best of your ability and tune out the wife. Bet the husband is secretly enjoying having two women care for him :P