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My 94 year old dad is showing signs of dementia. We believe our Mom was covering, knowingly or not, for him for awhile. She passed a year ago. Do we need 'proof' to seek assistance?
You don't need any proof to apply for some aasistance which I assume means some form of home care. What you need to do is schedule a visit with his PCP and have him screened for dementia. There's no way you yourself can determine the difference.
If you are his PoA, and depending on what is included in the PoA language, you may not need a formal diagnosis to know when you can engage your representative authority. If you require "proof" then you'll know you must have it first. Don't give yourself more work than necessary. As far as seeking assistance, do you mean for in-home help? Or financial for his medical bills, like Medicaid? You can call in social services for his county to do an in-home assessment for help. In my state/county it did not require any sort of diagnosis, just a lack of abilities to carry out ADLs More info would be helpful.
We had a very comfortable and confident result with a cognitive/psychiatric assessment done by a specialist in GERIATRIC Psychiatry.
Do some googling to find a local specialist trained in this very specific field. A very good assessment can also be done by a social worker or psychologist, but you need to be working with someone who can prescribe medication if necessary.
You may be able todo without proof of his conditions, it you will have more confidence in ongoing decision making with a professional, objective opinion.
My LO had SEVERE anxiety and depression, but she was also terrified as her realization became more apparent to her that something was wrong with her.
The very gentle therapist who assessed her guided through her evaluation without embarrassing or challenging her. After the assessment had taken place, she conferenced with me to add to her understanding of my LO’s past.
The process was very painful for me, but I have always been grateful to those who were so helpful to me AND to LO.
I hope you find helpful answers to your questions and are able to move forward to get help for Dad.
What kind of assistance are you seeking? Has your father been living alone? Are there signs this is now unsafe for him? Does he have family support in area? Is all his paperwork for POA completed and is he capable of paying his bills, doing so and etc? We need more info re symptoms you notice.
By proceeding, I agree that I understand the following disclosures:
I. How We Work in Washington.
Based on your preferences, we provide you with information about one or more of our contracted senior living providers ("Participating Communities") and provide your Senior Living Care Information to Participating Communities. The Participating Communities may contact you directly regarding their services.
APFM does not endorse or recommend any provider. It is your sole responsibility to select the appropriate care for yourself or your loved one. We work with both you and the Participating Communities in your search. We do not permit our Advisors to have an ownership interest in Participating Communities.
II. How We Are Paid.
We do not charge you any fee – we are paid by the Participating Communities. Some Participating Communities pay us a percentage of the first month's standard rate for the rent and care services you select. We invoice these fees after the senior moves in.
III. When We Tour.
APFM tours certain Participating Communities in Washington (typically more in metropolitan areas than in rural areas.) During the 12 month period prior to December 31, 2017, we toured 86.2% of Participating Communities with capacity for 20 or more residents.
IV. No Obligation or Commitment.
You have no obligation to use or to continue to use our services. Because you pay no fee to us, you will never need to ask for a refund.
V. Complaints.
Please contact our Family Feedback Line at (866) 584-7340 or ConsumerFeedback@aplaceformom.com to report any complaint. Consumers have many avenues to address a dispute with any referral service company, including the right to file a complaint with the Attorney General's office at: Consumer Protection Division, 800 5th Avenue, Ste. 2000, Seattle, 98104 or 800-551-4636.
VI. No Waiver of Your Rights.
APFM does not (and may not) require or even ask consumers seeking senior housing or care services in Washington State to sign waivers of liability for losses of personal property or injury or to sign waivers of any rights established under law.
I agree that:
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I authorize A Place For Mom ("APFM") to collect certain personal and contact detail information, as well as relevant health care information about me or from me about the senior family member or relative I am assisting ("Senior Living Care Information").
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APFM may provide information to me electronically. My electronic signature on agreements and documents has the same effect as if I signed them in ink.
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APFM may send all communications to me electronically via e-mail or by access to an APFM web site.
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If I want a paper copy, I can print a copy of the Disclosures or download the Disclosures for my records.
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This E-Sign Acknowledgement and Authorization applies to these Disclosures and all future Disclosures related to APFM's services, unless I revoke my authorization. You may revoke this authorization in writing at any time (except where we have already disclosed information before receiving your revocation.) This authorization will expire after one year.
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You consent to APFM's reaching out to you using a phone system than can auto-dial numbers (we miss rotary phones, too!), but this consent is not required to use our service.
A geriatric specialist doc at this stage of his life would be best. The family docs just are not as well versed in elder medical practice.
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Do some googling to find a local specialist trained in this very specific field. A very good assessment can also be done by a social worker or psychologist, but you need to be working with someone who can prescribe medication if necessary.
You may be able todo without proof of his conditions, it you will have more confidence in ongoing decision making with a professional, objective opinion.
My LO had SEVERE anxiety and depression, but she was also terrified as her realization became more apparent to her that something was wrong with her.
The very gentle therapist who assessed her guided through her evaluation without embarrassing or challenging her. After the assessment had taken place, she conferenced with me to add to her understanding of my LO’s past.
The process was very painful for me, but I have always been grateful to those who were so helpful to me AND to LO.
I hope you find helpful answers to your questions and are able to move forward to get help for Dad.