I don't know what to do. My mother has Alzheimer's and has been deemed incompetent. My youngest brother age 47 is my mother's power of attorney. No one is quite sure how he got that and also her health care proxy no one is sure how he got that either. He has told the hospital she was being treated in that there are certain people he wants to have no contact with her. I am one of those people. There is no legal reason why my brother should be keeping me from contacting my mom. He does not have guardianship of her. What legal recourse do I have to force him to let me see my mother?
You may need a lawyer.
Does your mother become agitated when you visit?