Well my brother-in-law just got a taste of what it's like in his mothers reality. This is #2 son who took her today to yet ANOTHER optometrist that verified that those ARE his moms glasses she's wearing on her face. NO, some stranger DID NOT steal them, and decided they liked them better than their own.
I think the people dealing with dementia/alzheimer parents/whoever should get together and go on a cruise. We could call it the "CRAZY CRUISE", or "CARETAKERS GONE CRAZY CRUISE" (we'll have a contest to vote on a name). We'll all have rubber rooms, and have our pills crushed up and put in the pudding. I'm signing up today. Oh wait, maybe we can call it the 'bangyourheadonthewall cruise'....
I love your sense of humor. How about "Looney Bin by the Sea"?
But seriously, your brother-in-law is burning out. A cruise isn't a far-fetched idea, as it'd help him regain balance by commiserating with others who are also caring for the mentally ill. As an ex-Marine, being out at sea six months a year had a calming effect on me; particularly when dolphins swam alongside the carrier. It's the closest we'll ever be to being on another planet, another world where you can get away from it all. And he needs that. Talk therapy and all.
I'm going to bed now. Thanks for the laugh Naheaton, I really needed it today.
-- ED
Consider an Adult Day Care, during the Day, You need a Break.
Please sign me up! Not for a rubber room, but somewhere warm so I can walk with bare feet. My dear hubby told me his mother used to say, "You're not driving me crazy; it's a short walk." In my dreams, I'm walking on the beach in tropical places. And, maybe even in reality, soon...
God bless your day! And thanks for making ours a little brighter!
So it basically comes down to, every optometrist in Oregon is WRONG, and she is the only one right. The eyeglasses that she has been wearing for almost 2 years now, just CAN"T be hers. Apparently when she put them down, someone took them and decided that glasses made for someone with macular degeneration, were better than theirs. Go figure....
I'm going to retire to my rubber room now, have a good day.