I am having difficulty with a sibling over Moms health Care. I want full responsibility for my mother with mild dementia. My sister has passed Moms e on to Moms 84 yr old boyfriend who is beginning to show signs as well. Because I live out of state my sister says mother can't move in with me. Her alternative is a nursing home which my mother is no where near needing it
If you are going to move her, I suggest a trial run to begin. Do not do anything permanent like sell her house from the onset. Also, please respect the boyfriend relationship, any arrangements that break up a relationship should only be a last option.....that would be so sad and traumatic for her.
Perhaps, by responsibiity you meant financial responsibility to provide for in house care. If that was a possibility and met her needs that would be great.
Your intentions are noble, best of luck to you.
L
What is an "e" that your sister passed onto your Mom's boyfriend?
Sounds like you might want to make a visit to your Mom before you make further decisions - and, perhaps, an elder attorney.