My Elder Law Atty told me I should liquidate all assets and apply all my cash to my mortgage then refinance to get a low payment. That would protect the money since a primary residence is exempt from limits and get a low enough payment for me to pay it with my retirement income. Also he suggested I divorce my husband and take half our assets thus allowing my husband to go in a NH on Medicaid and I would get the house, one car, and half our assets after paying down the mortgage. Any thoughts?
This WILL protect half the assets when he goes into care/is in care, whereas they will not otherwise be protected. I have myself seen this done with an acquaintance whose wife was in a deep coma many years until she died, after a fall. He had two small children to raise. He remained true to her until her death, but could not pay for care and be impoverished when he needed care hired for his children.
These are tough decisions. You have gone to an attorney for options. They were given to you. Now you have to make decisions on whether or not to follow the attorney's advice wholly or partially or if at all. You certainly could get advise of a second attorney to set this solid-in--stone if you are uncertain whether or not this is wise or legal.