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Hi Roger Are you asking can you be paid for being a caregiver to your girlfriend? There are sometimes resources available through Medicaid. Call your Area Agency on Aging and ask for guidance.
There are a couple of possible ways that you *might* be able to be paid.
If your state has any kind of resources to pay in home caregivers for her care (via Medicaid) that might be one option. Not all states have an option for this though.
The only other option for you to be paid would be for the two of you to draw up a contract and SHE pays you. This also may not be an issue if she doesn't have the funds.
I'm not sure how old you are, but I'm making some assumptions based on the 72 in your profile name - that you are in your 50s. Correct me if I'm wrong.
If you are not already retired, and you are in your 50s, while I can appreciate why you would want to be the one to provide care for your girlfriend, it may not be in you best interest to do so. If you are retired, you probably have your own income that will not change if you are home with her 24/7. BUT if you are not retired, you have to consider what no longer working and becoming her caregiver means for your future.
What we find here is that it is very rare for a familial/loved one caregiver to be paid enough to really live off of. Whether it be from a state funded allowance or your GF paying you, it won't likely be enough for you to live off of.
Roger, I new someone that had a disabled brother, he actually went and took CNA classes so he. Could be his brothers full time caregiver, and get paid.
But I just realized, you are 72? Are you retired, you don't give us a lot of information to go one to answer with out it being rather generic. Your GFS age and health issues would be helpful also.
Now about you, are you sure you want to do this? It will be hard! Please be aware of that. It will probably effect your health you anxiety, your everything. I hope you have a good support group, and help.
If she is 100% disabled she needs to be in a Skilled Nursing Facility. If she can't afford it Medicaid may pay. You will not be paid that much money if you are even able to get her "in home" Medicaid. If you have a job, keep it, you need those earnings for SS andvyour future. Maybe better off finding her help thru Medicaid.
Yes I'm 72 in perfect health. I've been taken care of Lydia for 10 years now. I only see the doctor once a year for my yearly check up,I'm in better shape now then last year.
Hi Roger - you should call your local Veteran's Administration office - they could help assist your girlfriend and explain what benefits they can offer her. It would be based on her income. The VA can take you thru the steps of applying for benefits - especially since she's disabled, they can explain the amount per month she may be eligible for regarding caregiving expenses.
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I. How We Work in Washington.
Based on your preferences, we provide you with information about one or more of our contracted senior living providers ("Participating Communities") and provide your Senior Living Care Information to Participating Communities. The Participating Communities may contact you directly regarding their services.
APFM does not endorse or recommend any provider. It is your sole responsibility to select the appropriate care for yourself or your loved one. We work with both you and the Participating Communities in your search. We do not permit our Advisors to have an ownership interest in Participating Communities.
II. How We Are Paid.
We do not charge you any fee – we are paid by the Participating Communities. Some Participating Communities pay us a percentage of the first month's standard rate for the rent and care services you select. We invoice these fees after the senior moves in.
III. When We Tour.
APFM tours certain Participating Communities in Washington (typically more in metropolitan areas than in rural areas.) During the 12 month period prior to December 31, 2017, we toured 86.2% of Participating Communities with capacity for 20 or more residents.
IV. No Obligation or Commitment.
You have no obligation to use or to continue to use our services. Because you pay no fee to us, you will never need to ask for a refund.
V. Complaints.
Please contact our Family Feedback Line at (866) 584-7340 or ConsumerFeedback@aplaceformom.com to report any complaint. Consumers have many avenues to address a dispute with any referral service company, including the right to file a complaint with the Attorney General's office at: Consumer Protection Division, 800 5th Avenue, Ste. 2000, Seattle, 98104 or 800-551-4636.
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Are you asking can you be paid for being a caregiver to your girlfriend?
There are sometimes resources available through Medicaid.
Call your Area Agency on Aging and ask for guidance.
If your state has any kind of resources to pay in home caregivers for her care (via Medicaid) that might be one option. Not all states have an option for this though.
The only other option for you to be paid would be for the two of you to draw up a contract and SHE pays you. This also may not be an issue if she doesn't have the funds.
I'm not sure how old you are, but I'm making some assumptions based on the 72 in your profile name - that you are in your 50s. Correct me if I'm wrong.
If you are not already retired, and you are in your 50s, while I can appreciate why you would want to be the one to provide care for your girlfriend, it may not be in you best interest to do so. If you are retired, you probably have your own income that will not change if you are home with her 24/7. BUT if you are not retired, you have to consider what no longer working and becoming her caregiver means for your future.
What we find here is that it is very rare for a familial/loved one caregiver to be paid enough to really live off of. Whether it be from a state funded allowance or your GF paying you, it won't likely be enough for you to live off of.
Additional details might be helpful.
But I just realized, you are 72? Are you retired, you don't give us a lot of information to go one to answer with out it being rather generic. Your GFS age and health issues would be helpful also.
Now about you, are you sure you want to do this? It will be hard! Please be aware of that. It will probably effect your health you anxiety, your everything. I hope you have a good support group, and help.
Anything else we are also here
How old is she and you?
Is she on SSDI or Medicaid? What are her financial resources? Does she own a home, a car, have savings, other assets?
What state do you live in?
What exactly is her disability? Is it physical or cognitive or both?
I don't really have an answer for you . Hopefully others do.
All the very best ~