My mother saved every penny my brother payed her for rent for 8 years @ 600 a month which is 57,600$ and she never touched the money, well I live in Las Vegas and they live in cathedral city california, so when my mom was put into hospice, my sister flew down to get power of attny, which my mom would have never wanted but my sister coerced her into signing, and then she told my mom that she could bring her to her house and get her a nurse so my mom told her about the money box and to get it and pay for the nurse and my sister got it, told my brother that they would all sit down together and count it, that never happened, my mom was calling me begging me to come and get her and take my sister off as trustee that she was robbing her blind, my sister has never given us any copies of any trust, she stole my moms jewelry, and never got her a nurse saying that my mom had no money but my brother who lived with my mom, knew for a fact that she had that money saved in that box, she kept it in my brothers closet. Now she has ghosted both of us since we have confronted her about it. what can i do?
I think that you will find, however, that you better have SOLID proof of coercion, of theft, that the money was NOT spent on mom, that the sister DID force an incompetent senior, that the money WAS there. I mean solid proof, not just saying so.
Because that becomes hearsay. That becomes "it was my understanding that" or "Mom told me" and mom is now, you tell us, no longer competent as a witness.
What I am saying here is that I think you have no case.
Sadly.
1. Mother did not, while competent, choose a POA and a second.
2. Mom did not have protection and she put her money in a "box
3. Mom did or did not willingly sign a POA paper, and she is now too incompetent to say which.
So you THINK money was put in a box
And you THINK sister forced mom to sign something
And you THINK every penny went to a nefarious sister who gave no help or care but was there to steal her mother blind.
That's going all to be very difficult to prove.
I think you have no case.
You are free to visit the DA office and you are free to get an attorney to open an investigation, and etc. But know that will all involve expense.
Poor choices were made here. Giving mom 600.00 a month (for what reason) to put in a box was a bad choice. And bad choices have bad consequences sometimes.
Do investigate and get information; I could well be wrong.
In any case, and whatever happens I couldn't be more sorry about it all. It has torn a family to pieces, which seems from reading forum what money tends to do at times.