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As some here know my mother is in SN from a septic infection that made her bedridden. Then she was dropped 9 months after that and her femurs were broken. They healed but she developed a serious bedsore which has to be treated daily. She also recently developed cellulitis.

She can read and I try to bring her different forms of reading material. She is compromised but basically still has alot of her mind. She has always loved to write in different forms but also to family and friends. Her handwriting has become very poor. It was never that good to begin with. She has asked for a typewriter. Before all these setbacks she used a computer. She had a printer in the AL section she used to be in.

If I were even able to find a suitable one it would have to sit on the bedside table that her food is put on. She has her drinks, eyeglasses, TV control and reading material there also. The phone is put on her bed for part of the day. I was wondering if I might be able to find a typewriter made for children. It would take paper.

I can get so exhausted with her needs but I feel bad that her life has become so limited. I worry about the safety of an item like this resting above her. I primarily concern myself with her health issues and trying to communicate about them with the staff and advocating on her behalf when I feel confused about one of her many ailments. Yesterday I spoke with the doctor on staff about treating lumps that have formed on some fingers which was diagnosed as gout during one of her hospital visits yet he claimed is not gout but can be drained by a dermatologist as he claims they are cysts. We went around in circles but I at least impressed upon him that she needed to see someone before mid June which I was told was the soonest she could be seen.

My question is whether anyone knows about such an item. I googled it but found mixed reviews. I also just wonder if I am trying to follow through with a difficult request.

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If one of your concerns is having something heavy around her that could fall on her or be hard for her to lift herself, I don't think a small laptop should be discounted. (She asked for one? Lots of people ask for lots of things, and we as caretakers do what we can, amending the request if something else is more feasible.)

They make small laptops with 11" screens. They're so lightweight that one can pick them up with one hand, and they don't do much damage if dropped on a foot, etc. I have a tiny Lenovo that I like; it cost me $75 on sale. Asus and Acer make reliable and affordable 11" laptops, too. Newer laptops all come with access to "the cloud," in which documents are essentially stored on the internet and can be downloaded and printed from other computers that are set to share access. Flashdrives/thumbdrives are also a cheap, easy way to store documents one wants to save. They're about the size of a baby carrot. You plug it into the side of the laptop, save your document into it, and then it can be taken and plugged into another computer for printing. I understand about not being computer savvy, but it doesn't take much computer knowledge (I should know). Still, if you have a younger niece, son, neighbor who's willing to help with this set up, you could have your mother writing down her thoughts in no time.

I also understand about already being overwhelmed with responsibilities. "I'm giving up so much to try to do the right thing, and now you want me buying what and learning how to use it?" I get it. I hope you and your mother find a happy solution.

PS. I'm working with a gentleman of 94 right now who wrote his memoir on a laptop at the age of 93.
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Maybe you just want to say, "Mom, I'm going to look into that".
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Riverdale Feb 2022
I did a version of that. Of course she said she would have no problems with suggestions here. Upon leaving I think i had her somewhat convinced how difficult it would all be. She never was even able to manage a cell phone. She never was able to do laundry. Our clothes went to a laundry service and they would lose half of my father's socks. I wondered as a child why we lived with a broken washer and dryer.

I will still probably feel a little guilty but unless I am going to lug some device to her I think it is sadly pointless. She has lost a desire to get out of bed. Restrictions have been lifted and I felt sad seeing all the residents eating together at a table. As I walked the halls to track down her NYTimes ( they can't seem to get her correct room number from when she was on the rehab hall ) I just found myself saying to myself "How long will this continue" which also makes me feel bad that I feel this way. At least I got her the paper, her Starbucks drink and she was happy. My husband told her about the latest historical event on the island we live on. Then we go and have a coffee and pastry and just wonder. She is getting 2 different types of pain medication a day. For the time being I am not going to pursue this but I really do appreciate all the warming responses.
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Why can't she use a laptop? So much easier to type on then a typewriter. Then what she writes can be put on a flash drive and printed out for mailing.
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Riverdale Feb 2022
Thank you. I am not overly computer savvy. I will go over this with my husband but he might find retrieving the hard drive difficult but I will try.
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Riverdale, I had no idea your Mom was dealing with all this and I am so sorry. I wish I had a clue what might work. Have you accessed any catalogs that deal with those with disabilities. I honestly have no idea what's out there, but I was hoping some sort of pad with enlarged key's or squares. Sure wouldn't help with printing, but could that not be done later on those things she wanted to print?
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Here's a Smith Corona electric typewriter for under $100 with shipping; I'd offer the guy $50 (best offer) and then $36.75 shipping, so you're in for $86.75 plus tax if applicable, and you're DONE. Give mom the typewriter which likely will NOT be the answer for her, but you will have satisfied her request for what she THINKS she wants, and that's that. Give her a ream of copy paper to go with it and hope for the best. An electric typewriter is the only thing that would possibly work, given her finger issues and the light touch required for an electric keyboard.


https://www.ebay.com/itm/284660905810?hash=item42471cb752&_trkparms=ispr%3D1&amdata=enc%3AAQAGAAADQLpZciUYLcsse9cFu9qqe6eT7Up9EBjf274laEtZnJxb2kAtfLOnPqYQljZIbxgpde7%252Fdpc%252BymdGv1rdr5vQFdGAJ6m7JR6sLx24UqkuZFQ24NeN4l9zFC6Y5ICDW55Zu%252BxJZjxnqK8suBEpFf9PCwfLUNlOfJLm3v2Qx%252FBuO7tpEmxlIQ9KZh539IendH4TOMUf9FvdGGCOK%252FFu90PKg4hOU06nncWPSKaiysxAv%252F6uzLVAZVmrz6IQRb%252F2zlTyREcAkTfoVaVzv8f0eW9Qe6%252BJghxz4tIqRe1ofi1SOQgOpeFtLlQw1HapHD0KsZLIYc04PTJGIVboe9pb8DV3h90SdAizvvIcLh8x74CsJBGRRac2WkJ2x5BHI4GFCgXO13TSm%252BfPAHj1f1ifYNRuVODB2dfAWfVnSx20zSNwtHn8drwhRN33t%252F8jgONBKIeVIqHVMtGPYN9r2mz8drYkL902WeKRThQAqXBJTdrH98ezc9i7QxWiDZALRoSEOCHtQdO5oWVQUJU6zPlFW3tgO%252FMp2%252BcPeAM4%252FNkErBVaSCBgAZt5Og%252FkdD3mVkaUJqawG%252FRlggkbibSlCyea2tuIyE%252FvWOL1recACbjykCu28a1jaVofaSAKIBLzLOLfqvtJzqoC6bJG6iWIRYY%252FmT2AJqRytL%252BG%252BPfSx%252BeTVbo5V2LZ%252BIuWYJ2kpET%252BilYU74hSpH93H%252FBQ7u%252BVcKEpodoUoPwzGv%252FsaOaCzemkU5jlx0aMbDanzSPooR%252FGVjV%252FSCOv2XEv7wRiv59OBYiVa6SpB73QuoSSMEEKhUK%252FIudVMAkAVqq9OhmXQr8qgSmrqo5X%252BsfS9lt2KEg6SY7hLbTqBmDTVFGWEJrWktQPvbQ93Q0QFAuxz3ytd9h3eiXB%252FGH0434nj2flAkFN2t4faA0mlQuUxIhCnU3vbRK9fM5aEvqmHHHrBNPd9Off7LCli8NjWhJdH16tIUx2f1VvjPmNZIwOGAgHadO7XGn6FIDhm%252B4xGuhJvDFOMlLjPTtGUPh0FYc55WwnOp63GNWd0q6XCKT8yS72rlD37KAg1KxPZ8hK0pxnIpv0STeygoY3sWlrX6Ff2iWg%252FYeZBvk4D3d%252B97s%253D%7Campid%3APL_CLK

If there is another request after the typewriter doesn't work, I'd go over to Best Buy or wherever and check out what's available in a small laptop computer model with a separate keyboard. Which is likely way too confusing and complicated for her to operate, which is why the typewriter is a cheaper alternative for the time being.

Best of luck RD!
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Hope this is not off-topic.
One of the most cherished treasures/keepsakes that I have is a letter hand-written from my friend's Viking Mom.
Years after she went into care, she wrote me, always called me her adopted daughter.
The handwriting is barely readable.

She thought that I would make a good secretary, and she could dictate the letters to me.

You might be able to get someone to help your Mom with that, then help mail the letters.
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Thank you all. I am going to see her tomorrow and discuss this more at length. I am nervous about anything that needs her to connect to the internet. Over the years that she resided in AL I had to close and open several credit cards due to her signing up for something that wasn't right whether it was charities, catalog memberships etc. She is not really living in a realistic state of mind. She thinks the bedsore will heal. I don't tell her otherwise although I believe that to be the case. I do cards for her but she doesn't have much to say to me to relate. She can be better on the phone at times. She is on round the clock pain medication due to the bedsore.
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RD, whatever you decide to do, can you get another adjustable bed tray table that is used exclusively for the letter writing? Maybe heavy Velcro to keep it from moving or falling?
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Riverdale, you might try donation entities, such as Salvation Army, Purple Heart, or others.   

Another option is antique stores.    That's probably where my old  electrics will go.   Although this is a long stretch, museums also might have some that they're willing to sell.   

Having grown up using a manual typewriter, electric typewriter (Selectric) and now a computer, I can also state that computer keyboards are NOT easier to use, nor are they as easy on the hands, wrists and arms.   

The reason I write that computer keyboards are not as kind to a person's limbs is b/c of the position of the hands when using them.   The keyboard is flat, not angled.   The movement of the wrist, hand and fingers changes.

Just searched and found a few Selectrics available, but they're expensive, in the $400 - 500 range.  

In the mid 2000s, my aunt found a special type of typewriter that also could be Internet connected.   I don't recall what it was, but it was streamlined for use by older folks.   I think I've seen them advertised in the AARP publications.   

Try this URL.  I found some decent buys there:

"AARP, typewriters for older people", or

https://www.google.com/search?hl=en&source=hp&biw=&bih=&q=AARP%2C+typewriters+for+older+people&iflsig=AHkkrS4AAAAAYhEmdzm8PvW-uZk6jwYZtwu2cWUXZ0Fw&gbv=2&oq=AARP%2C+typewriters+for+older+people&gs_l=heirloom-hp.3...1643.8374.0.8498.34.12.0.22.0.0.134.1235.4j8.12.0....0...1ac.1.34.heirloom-hp..23.11.1151.izAIblVQn4c
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NightHeron Feb 2022
They make angled keyboards for computers. Laptops I'm not so sure. But computer keyboards can absolutely be as ergonomic as you need them to be.
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You can buy really small keyboards that would 'attach' to a computer. A small laptop or IPAD would sit in her lap or on a bedtable and wouldn't be heavy or take up much room.

BE SURE to keep track of the various sign in info--my DH has been to his mom's to retrieve her passwords many, many times. She never can remember. My mom has used her little IPAD once and forgot the password after that and now it just sits gathering dust.
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