Need help at night he refuses. No poa no sleep he 82 me 75. He refuses to get night help or sign a poa I am sleep deprived and burnt out What can I do to help him he is rational some of the time and verbally abusive at other times. We pay a cleaning lady/aide 120.00 a day need more pro help but he refuses any discussion Most of our income is in his name What do I do We are paying 4000.00 for a bath lift chair so he will be safe. I am in need of advice to help him keep his dignity and to be able to care for him