Just moved my mom to an assisted living facility out of a rehab facility. And the food is outrageous. Chili dogs and pizza? They even served margaritas (alcoholic) at rehab and push desserts like it was crack. My mom complains about her food but what can you do? Ensure has 20gr of sugar so that's a terrible option. I feel terrible for her. Once I was there to eat with her and the fish smelled so bad and tasted even worse. Fried chicken, gravy smothered rice, processed white bread/rolls, sweet tea. How is someone who is 79 and not in great health supposed to get any better with this for food?
I know my Dad [92] would love to have a chili dog or pizza, but Mom [97] never would prepare a fun lunch or dinner like that for him. She never had a pizza in her life, but Dad remember having pizza when he was in college.
"Nutritious" food is only healthy if it is eaten. That can be a real challenge when serving elderly people or even sick people of any age.
How is someone supposed to get any better on that food? When I was feeding my husband (dementia) I knew he was not going to get better, no matter what. His geriatrician and his neurologist both urged him to "eat what you like." We tossed the heart-healthy diet he had been on for years to the winds.
My mother's geriatrician told her, "Whatever you have been eating has gotten you to age 90, so I trust your judgement. Eat whatever you like." She is now (at 94) in a nursing home and she loves the food, especially that there is a dessert with each meal (sometimes a fruit salad) and that she can have a cookie anytime she wants it. Will she better on this food? Nope. And she won't get better on a "healthier" diet either. Happiness is a great goal right now. A slice of apple pie makes her happy.
(My son is in the hospital right now. His diet is not at all balanced but he is very healthy (he's there from an accident) and he isn't going to eat what the kitchen sends up. Not eating is definitely not good. So we are working through his nurse to get him less well-balanced meals.)
Whether it is because of nutritional concerns, restrictive preferences, ethnic considerations, or for any reason a care center resident is not happy with the meals, do work with the appropriate staff. They really want happy campers!
My Mom is a fussy eater but Dad will eat anything put in front of him.... I'm the same way as Dad because I hate to cook so if someone else is doing the cooking everything looks good :)
I would assume that continuing care facilities would have special diets for those residents who have food allergies or for religious reasons, one might have to pay extra for this, but it is worth looking into.
Mother disliked fish and we told the head dietitian at least once a week. She still had fish served at least 2 meals a week. They would mark her as not eating and I would attach a note stating what she had really eaten each day.
I ask them to not bring those nasty looking trays in because we were providing Mom's meals, other than breakfast. It was trash food so it going in the trash was appropriate.
My heart just aches for those who do not have someone in and out every day to check on them. We never left Mother alone whether in the hospital or rehab. One of the 4 of us was always there 24/7 and we had a private duty nurse on standby in case something came up. I truly understand how fortunate my Mom was to have her family in the same city.