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My 92 yr old Gpa is in his right state of mind, but has some serious health problems that are starting to affect him taking care of himself. He has macular degeneration and stage 4 lung cancer, but has decided not to receive anymore treatment for anything. My father, the only child, passed away 10 yrs ago. So, its my older brother and I that are left to start getting things in order as far as assets and property. My brother is living with him now and I recently found out from him, that he's had our gpa change the will to him getting the house and everything else that I know of. I don't believe this was our gpa decided to do without undue influence of my brother, He has been refusing to let me, or any other family members inside the house to check on him. He will not answer our calls or the door either. So, my cousin and I met and called the local police dept to do a welfare check because nobody could get them to answer. The police officer found a window that was unlocked and opened it to try to make contact. My brother that's inside comes to the room where we were and said he wasn't opening the door that it was his house. That didn't work for him because the police officer made him let us in to check on him, He was visibly dehydrated and was complaining of a bed sore on his back side. The next day my cousin goes to check on him and he cant talk or walk very well. My brother said he mustve taken too much meds. My cousin calls ambulance because my brother did not. I'm sorry, I know this is a lot, but this is just some of what's been going on. I've reported this to adult protective services and need to know what to do next.?? I am afraid that since he is in his right state of mind that nothing will be done, but I do believe there is some serious issues going on and think he's being forced to tell us he is fine, when he actually isn't.
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You did the right thing by calling APS. There is nothing much more that you can do at this point. Let APS investigate and go forward from there.
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