Told my mother couple years ago we would have her live with us when the time comes but after having her stay with us for a short holiday, I realize I made a mistake. She wasn’t a really a good mother and I wasn’t her favourite that being my sister who doesn’t bother with her. I just feel trapped with a rash idea that I feel will have bad results with me already feeling stressed and depressed just thinking about it.
My mom moved her mom in and it didn’t work at all. So then my grandma moved to another house on the same property and that worked out much better. My grandma could smoke cigarettes, eat high fat food and keep cats. But moving out did cause some hard feelings for a while.