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moved in with mom over 2 years ago for full time care. I’m so tired of being made to feel stupid.
When you’re asking the question and so tired, chances are you’re done. And it’s okay. You’ve done all you can, all that should be reasonably expected. It’s time to practice self care and build your own life. I wish you healing and peace
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Does mom own her house and are you dependent for now in staying there? Or do you reasonably expect to inherit the house if you stick it out? These are reasonable reasons to stay.
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When one ends up asking that question ,
they are usually done .
That’s ok . We all have our limits .
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If you ae asking I would say that you are near done. Are you looking into other solutions? I would start now.

Me, I know my limitations and would never make it as a live in caregiver, for several years I had 3 in AL, that was enough of a challenge for me.

Do what is best for you.
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No one can "make you feel" anything. That is something you "allow yourself" to feel.
It is time to get some psychological counseling for yourself so you can make solid decisions going forward. Otherwise you will throw your own life away on the slow burn of your parent's funeral pyre; and no one will ever thank you for it.
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