Husband is alcoholic retired age 69. He has a room for his computer, memorabilia, etc. It is a filthy mess. The dogs stay in there with him so does the dust and dirt. Beer cans in bags on the floor. His "stuff" - shoes he never wears, books he never reads, magazines, other things of his either broken or not used - lays on the floor. The closet is packed with things he never wears or uses. Desktop has pile of whatever - papers, more things. When I try to clean or straighten he becomes defensive. "Don't touch my stuff". Is there a way to approach this without his angry flare-up? And yes there is anger on both sides. I despise the filth and junk. Room was repainted and refloored 2 years ago - at my expense- and has become a dump. Do I just close the door and forget it?