I hate feeling so negative all the time, but caregiving has been so tough, I'm afraid to think positive and get my hopes up.
Last week my Mom's Dr. convinced her to take a low dose antidepressant and a mild sleep aid. It took a few days, but we have seen major changes for the last two days. She has all kinds of lifelong personality issues, made worse by dementia.
She is laughing, concentrating, far less confused and irritable, obsessing far less and seems so much better. Today she said she had not had a day this good in years.
No where near perfect, but so much easier than it was.
Has anyone seen long term improvements in dementia patients with these meds ?
My fear right now, she has a past history of any little thing that goes wrong she decides is a side affect and quits taking her meds.
I can't believe anyone would go through the stressful effects of progressive dementia without the aid of medications that can decrease anxiety and depression.
With or without dementia, we all do better if we are not sleep deprived. If the antidepressant seems to be improving things, just enjoy that as long as it lasts. As the dementia advances it may not continue to help as much, or a different med or adjustment to dose may be needed, but celebrate whatever works!
There are different kinds of Magnesium so please just don't run out and grab a bottle of whatever is on the shelf. This one element can make all the difference in your life and your Moms.
My father refused anything, and was suicidal on and off. His choice.
I hope the good effects last!
He has personality issues that have went on for decades. Spent a year in the psych ward during the end of WWII (not post-traumatic). He should have went back decades ago and maybe the family would have had some peace.
Whatever they are giving him it has helped. Hope the doctor writes the perscription by the gross.
And Jinx4740 -- you typed two words that have helped me today. "His choice." Sometimes, that is simply what it all comes down to and you just have to step away to save yourself.
See All Answers