Hi everyone. I hope some of you can give me your thoughts or guidance.
My dad is 92. Nursing home since March. Now has aspiration pneumonia. He has lost his ability to eat/drink. Family meeting yesterday at NH. He has declined SO much in the last month. He is in bed now - can't walk, incontinent, last stage frontotemporal dementia. A decision was made for hospice/comfort care. : (
We are Medicaid pending. Application sent in May. But they are backlogged and could take up to 4 months for approval.
Medicare stops paying the Nursing Home as of July 31.
Nursing Home told us they can do Comfort Care until the Medicaid is approved (if he last that long). Hospice will not come to the Nursing Home while we are 'pending'. BUT... I found out (NH didn't tell me this) that we can move him to a beautiful Hospice Facility a couple towns over and that Medicare pays 100%. I didn't know that Medicare pays for Hospice.
SO.... the people at the nursing home are really nice and they really care about my dad. My dad is comfortable there and now knows all the staff and they know us. The staff is always popping in to see him. We are very happy with them.
BUT... August 1... he will have NO insurance paying for his stay there. I know when the Medicaid kicks in the NH will get their money... but it's so stressful knowing we will get the bill for his stay until the Medicaid goes through. And what IF we are denied??? (Lawyer says we won't, but who knows)
IF we move him to the Hospice facility... Medicare will pay 100% and that financial stress will be lifted. And then the Medicaid can take as long as it wants. But it will be traumatic for him to be moved.
I feel so selfish thinking about money when this is really about keeping my dad comfortable. : (
Any thoughts?
NH won't let hospice care come in? Why not?
However..... In my experience, hospice did NOT cover the daily room & board costs of being in a facility if their a LTC resident. All the medical care costs were billable to Medicare (& were substantial as once on hospice there will be equipment changes like pneumatic bedding, gerichairs, nutrional drinks even bibs all billable to MediCARE) but not the daily room&board. R&B is viewed as a custodial service and so MediCARE doesn’t pay for, as MediCARE is about hospitalization and medical costs not the costs of daily living. R&B could be several hundred $$$ a day. My mom was on hospice for 18 long, l...o...n..g months and in a NH. She was a LTC on Medicaid resident at the NH for a while (& had been Medicaid Pending for 5 1/2 mos), then one day she fell forward (was pulling her wheelchair by the seat), shattered a hip then became bedfast and onto hospice. She did not go to the hospital but was X rayed at the NH & the medical director MD, the assistant DON, SW & I had a emergency care conference call and the decision was made to have her stay there but Segway to hospice. I live in another state. The Hospice group “on call” for that day filed with Medicare for her & started the next day; there was a flurry of phone calls, faxes & scans that first week. But mom went onto hospice relatively seamlessly. For her, MediCARE paid hospice BUT MedicAID paid daily R&B. So both needed to cover costs to be in a facility.
But for my mil it was different, she was in a NH and Medicaid Pending and got very ill. She was hospitalized & got discharged back to the same NH but as a post hospitalization “rehab” patient, so covered under Medicare rehab benefit for 20/21 days. So Medicare paid 100% all her care costs as standard rehab allows for 20/21 days to kinda determine “progress” in rehab. She didn’t progress, so went off Medicare but back onto applying for Medicaid and being Medicaid Pending. It was within 30 days so it was not exactly new application per se. (btw all this stuff is super time/date sensitive). Now while in the NH under rehab, the NH got paid 100% by Medicare and medicare pays about triple for rehab what NH would get paid from a Medicaid daily R&B, so the NH is super happy. Mil in NH a few more months and got very, very ill once again and back into hospital. But this time she’s gone super septic & mil doesn’t get discharged back to the old NH but instead to a free standing hospice adjacent to hospital. She died within 3 weeks so still totally on Medicare but if she had taken longer to die there would have been an issue as the hospice did not take LTC Medicaid. The vast majority of the residents at this free standing hospice were younger cancer patients on black box type of drugs, a couple on vents, a couple isolated with precautions entry. Their stay was paid by private pay or health insurance like BCBS.
I’d suggest you clearly find out what coverage is paid before moving him from the current NH to a hospice in a neighborhing town.
MIL died still Medicaid Pending. One son dogged the application and she was finally eligible almost a year later. NH held her personal needs allowance trust account during all this period. NH send bills, delinquent notices, collections letters. But everybody out of state and nobody signed off to be personally responsible, so nothing they could really do but hold the PNA. Please realize that IF you sign off on any paperwork in just your name, the hospice, hospital, NH etc. will seek you out personally for mom’s debt. You kinda need to always & on all signature lines sign “Jane Smith Jones in her limited capacity as DPOA for Ann Smith” or however it needs to be for your states legal.
Is there any reason Medicaid will be denied?
If only the Medicaid application would get approved!! There is no reason for it not too... it's just that the state of CT layed off so many state workers that the staff was cut and there are too many applications waiting for caseworkers.
BarbBrooklyn - The NH will let Hospice come in. Hospice will not come as we are Medicaid Pending.
Medicare will pay for Hospice and Medicare will also pay for Respite. It is possible that the transfer to the Hospice In Patient Unit would first be classed as "symptom management" and Medicare will pay for that, and as far as I know there is not a limit on time..the classification might change to "respite" or they may find another medical reason to keep him in the In Patient Unit a bit longer.
Personally...I would go for Hospice. My Husband received such good care from Hospice (he was at home) As I have said many times here I would not have been able to do what I did without the help from Hospice.
My FIL had Hospice in the NH for months. Our local hospice providers have several NH patients.
Look around for a different hospice provider.
We were a couple months on Medicaid pending. I'd just go talk to the NH office and tell them that they'd get paid when Medicaid got approved. Our attorney kept them informed of expected dates, too.
If you are happy with where he is, I wouldn't risk a move to an unknown place. Especially one that refuses to give him care where he is; sounds callous to me.
I did my homework and decided that hospice at home was the way to go. they wanted to go home. I couldn't afford anymore copays per month of close to 3500.00 each, nursing and care place. medicare leads you to believe they pay all and they do not. The Hospice care are wonderful. they pay everything. medicine, diapers, hospice beds, trips required elsewhere, doctor visits which they come to your home. etc. the worry of how am I going to pay the bills was no longer an issue. the best part of hospice is they treat the patients like they were their family. they are so wonderful and loving to their patients. they will be their 100 % for you and your family.
so I decided after speaking with hospice that their dignity
was not being taken away from my parents at the end of their lives.
they are their 24 hours a day for you.
It was painful to watch parents decline in life but they were treated with golden gloves and given everything they needed to be pain free and begin there new journey in life.
dad passed and mom passed three weeks later.
I am still in touch with hospice and they call me regularly to see if
I need anything. with hospice you cant go wrong...
Stay on top of Medicare/Medicaid. They will put you off for as long as possible. Go to their office and stay on top if it until THEY get so tired of you they'll get the paperwork done.
Does Dad still own his home?
If so, do not go to the State for help! They will tell you all about the lollipops and cotton candy when what they're really telling you is "we'll help, but we're going to place a lien on the house so we get our money back"!
What retirement benefits does he have, veteran's benefits?
I'm sorry to say this, but everyone has come late to the party.
Gooh luck