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My mom was having a lot of diarrhea. Her Gastro PA suggested I increase her fiber capsules (psyllium husk) from one to two a day. It worked. I can't say it would worrk for you. Mom has always had a lot of GI problems, so has a regular appointment with them. You should probably consult your mom's GP or get a referral to GI specialist.
I agree with all 4 previous answers. Determining the cause of the diarrhea would help, if you can. It could be diet or medications for any diseases she has. My wife has frequent bouts of mushy stools and less often, diarrhea. I give her Loperamide which works well for about 4 days, but it sometimes leads to constipation that eventually resolves. I cut off her diaper and roll her over (one leg at a time) to remove it. I also use a cloth, washable, overbed covering: Amazon-Incontinence Bed Pads - Reusable Waterproof Underpad Chair, Sofa and Mattress Protectors - Highly Absorbent, Machine Washable - for Children, Pets and Seniors (18x24 (Pack of 4), Blue) and on top of that, a disposable underpad (29"X35") to protect the mattress cover. I can usually contain the mess by folding the underpad, while lifting her legs one at a time to remove it. I still sometimes have to wash the overbed covering if there is spillage onto it. Cleaning her with baby wipes and toilet paper is the most difficult and delicate job.
Yes, so disgusting. I could NOT do it! Found diarrhea clothing in my mom's hamper and started crying. Hubby saved the day and did the laundry. I don't know what I would have done without him. Oh yes I would have thrown it all away. You are a saint.
But to your issue. How long has this been going on? I agree with psyllium husk. Supposed to help either way - too loose or too hard. Great fiber source.
Meds - new ones? Ones known to have diarrhea as a common side effect? Maybe some can be reduced, eliminated and swapped out with something else. Have you talked to her doc about this yet?
Foods - my mom would get diarrhea if she had ice cream (or other unfermented dairy). This was a relatively new development in last 5-10 years, never an issue when younger. I would cut out foods that are common allergens, like dairy and see if that helps.
Try the BRAT diet (look it up).
If nothing helps, I would hire help or place her somewhere. This would be a total showstopper for me.
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I. How We Work in Washington.
Based on your preferences, we provide you with information about one or more of our contracted senior living providers ("Participating Communities") and provide your Senior Living Care Information to Participating Communities. The Participating Communities may contact you directly regarding their services.
APFM does not endorse or recommend any provider. It is your sole responsibility to select the appropriate care for yourself or your loved one. We work with both you and the Participating Communities in your search. We do not permit our Advisors to have an ownership interest in Participating Communities.
II. How We Are Paid.
We do not charge you any fee – we are paid by the Participating Communities. Some Participating Communities pay us a percentage of the first month's standard rate for the rent and care services you select. We invoice these fees after the senior moves in.
III. When We Tour.
APFM tours certain Participating Communities in Washington (typically more in metropolitan areas than in rural areas.) During the 12 month period prior to December 31, 2017, we toured 86.2% of Participating Communities with capacity for 20 or more residents.
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If this is something new or has gotten worse, talk to her doctor. This can dehydrate Mom and cause other problems.
I hope something helps, but she may have reached the point where she needs professional care.
Got her to the doctor.
I cut off her diaper and roll her over (one leg at a time) to remove it. I also use a cloth, washable, overbed covering: Amazon-Incontinence Bed Pads - Reusable Waterproof Underpad Chair, Sofa and Mattress Protectors - Highly Absorbent, Machine Washable - for Children, Pets and Seniors (18x24 (Pack of 4), Blue) and on top of that, a disposable underpad (29"X35") to protect the mattress cover. I can usually contain the mess by folding the underpad, while lifting her legs one at a time to remove it. I still sometimes have to wash the overbed covering if there is spillage onto it. Cleaning her with baby wipes and toilet paper is the most difficult and delicate job.
https://www.webmd.com/drugs/2/drug-56088/psyllium-husk-fibre-oral/details
But to your issue. How long has this been going on? I agree with psyllium husk. Supposed to help either way - too loose or too hard. Great fiber source.
Meds - new ones? Ones known to have diarrhea as a common side effect? Maybe some can be reduced, eliminated and swapped out with something else. Have you talked to her doc about this yet?
Foods - my mom would get diarrhea if she had ice cream (or other unfermented dairy). This was a relatively new development in last 5-10 years, never an issue when younger. I would cut out foods that are common allergens, like dairy and see if that helps.
Try the BRAT diet (look it up).
If nothing helps, I would hire help or place her somewhere. This would be a total showstopper for me.