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I am sorry for your loss. One explanation may be is that she did not "fall and break her hip" she may have had a minor stroke that caused her to fall resulting in a broken hip. The second stroke probably would have occurred anyway.
The surgery is also difficult on a person and that may have contributed to it.
Please do not dwell on what happened. Please think about all the good things your mom did and what she taught you throughout your life. You obviously had a good mom or you would not be upset. (trust me I see enough posts from people that have parents that never should have been parents) Keep mom with you in your thoughts and she will always be with you.
I hope you can find peace and I am so very, very sorry for your loss. Often times people have mini-strokes that contribute to falls, and that's followed by a bigger stroke. It's also very possible that your mom suffered a blood clot after surgery and it traveled to her brain, causing a stroke. It's happens after surgery. I am so very sorry.
Did she also have heart of kidney disease? High blood pressure? Was she ever a smoker?
My grandmother fell and broke her hip and then died 5 days later while in the hospital.
What happened with her is that she was medically fragile— she had two well controlled medical issues (high blood pressure, congestive heart failure) and she had been going along and doing well.
When she broke her hip, the trauma of the broken bone taxed her body so badly that her kidneys and heart started acting wonky. They struggled to get all of it under control.
She then entered the process of dying and she died after about 12 hours with her family by her side.
A broken hip is a huge event for an elder. Even with surgical repair, for some people it’s just too much added on to everything else.
While medicine of today can help with many issues that at one time caused earlier deaths we haven’t received the crystal ball to tell us who will live or who will survive a trauma. Especially in the elderly with comorbidities.
With a broken hip there may have been few to no options beyond replacement.
My friend’s sis was just diagnosed with cancer. After receiving 6 bags of blood she was taken off blood thinners. She was sent to rehab. Within days she had blood clots in her lungs that sent her back to the ER to be removed. In her case one almost wonders how she can still be alive with her kidney issues and diabetes and heart issues. She lived a sedentary lifestyle and appears very fragile.
She’s only 78 and finds herself needing blood thinners to prevent clots and losing blood due to the cancer. Sometimes the odds are very high against survival. She didn’t know she had bladder cancer a month ago. Now all her problems are converging.
Please do speak with the doctors to better understand your moms unique situation.
Wishing you peace. It will take time to accept her passing. It is a shock. Please be gentle with yourself.
What a shock for you and the family.! My deepest sympathies on your loss. Falling and breaking a hip can be the beginning of the end for a senior.
In any case, this was very sudden and I know that makes a loss harder to cope with. Losing a loved one and the process of grieving is a difficult journey. Please kook after yourself as you go through this.
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APFM does not endorse or recommend any provider. It is your sole responsibility to select the appropriate care for yourself or your loved one. We work with both you and the Participating Communities in your search. We do not permit our Advisors to have an ownership interest in Participating Communities.
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We do not charge you any fee – we are paid by the Participating Communities. Some Participating Communities pay us a percentage of the first month's standard rate for the rent and care services you select. We invoice these fees after the senior moves in.
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APFM tours certain Participating Communities in Washington (typically more in metropolitan areas than in rural areas.) During the 12 month period prior to December 31, 2017, we toured 86.2% of Participating Communities with capacity for 20 or more residents.
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One explanation may be is that she did not "fall and break her hip" she may have had a minor stroke that caused her to fall resulting in a broken hip.
The second stroke probably would have occurred anyway.
The surgery is also difficult on a person and that may have contributed to it.
Please do not dwell on what happened.
Please think about all the good things your mom did and what she taught you throughout your life.
You obviously had a good mom or you would not be upset. (trust me I see enough posts from people that have parents that never should have been parents)
Keep mom with you in your thoughts and she will always be with you.
Sad but true.
I'm sorry for your loss.
I'm so sorry for your loss. I pray for you to have peace as you grieve the loss of your beloved mom.
My grandmother fell and broke her hip and then died 5 days later while in the hospital.
What happened with her is that she was medically fragile— she had two well controlled medical issues (high blood pressure, congestive heart failure) and she had been going along and doing well.
When she broke her hip, the trauma of the broken bone taxed her body so badly that her kidneys and heart started acting wonky. They struggled to get all of it under control.
She then entered the process of dying and she died after about 12 hours with her family by her side.
A broken hip is a huge event for an elder. Even with surgical repair, for some people it’s just too much added on to everything else.
I’m so sorry your mom died. HUGS.
I am so sorry you lost your dear mom.
While medicine of today can help with many issues that at one time caused earlier deaths we haven’t received the crystal ball to tell us who will live or who will survive a trauma. Especially in the elderly with comorbidities.
With a broken hip there may have been few to no options beyond replacement.
My friend’s sis was just diagnosed with cancer. After receiving 6 bags of blood she was taken off blood thinners. She was sent to rehab. Within days she had blood clots in her lungs that sent her back to the ER to be removed. In her case one almost wonders how she can still be alive with her kidney issues and diabetes and heart issues. She lived a sedentary lifestyle and appears very fragile.
She’s only 78 and finds herself needing blood thinners to prevent clots and losing blood due to the cancer. Sometimes the odds are very high against survival. She didn’t know she had bladder cancer a month ago. Now all her problems are converging.
Please do speak with the doctors to better understand your moms unique situation.
Wishing you peace. It will take time to accept her passing. It is a shock. Please be gentle with yourself.
Like others have said, this is really not all that uncommon.
In any case, this was very sudden and I know that makes a loss harder to cope with. Losing a loved one and the process of grieving is a difficult journey. Please kook after yourself as you go through this.
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