She insists my mother has dementia, but when she had her taken forcefully to the hospital, the physiologist sent her home because she was no danger to herself or anyone, just confused. Partially because she is deaf. It is hard for her to understand anything, being 94 years old. When I found out she was placed, I was told I could NOT visit her for 3 weeks. I have left messages to the nursing home but have not received any response. What action can I take to be informed of her condition, etc....?
Is there any reason you and the POA are not on speaking terms? I would take it that the POA has been given the authority for a reason and hopefully, you can maintain a relationship with you mother as she is remains in the nursing home. Did the facility say why they wanted a 3 week period of no visits? It could be to allow her to adjust. I'd inquire of their policy.