Now when she sees my dad her husband of 62 years she asks who is he? Also went away a few days in motor home with my brother and insists someone else was there slept there and came home with them. Said it's a friend and really believes this happened. What can we do to help her?
Maya4blue, I recommend pulling out some wedding photos to remind her. Visual reminders are very helpful. My in-laws have pictures of the family all in there room and I think this has helped her to remember who she is and who they are.
You can talk to her physician as one of the medications might be contributing. I had to stop DH's Benadryl as it can cause hallucinations in the aged.
Get creative if necessary and tell her it's her "beau" and he's courting her. My DH keeps asking me if I'm married.