Need to figure out an exit strategy, any suggestions would be helpful.

We really don't even have the money for that to be honest......... I've been in talks with a social worker from a medical group that is supplying us with part time aid such as nursing, occupational therapy, physical therapy........ it's just that bad and I'm alone and not sure what to do next.
I did explain all of this to the social worker that is trying to help us but everything is time consuming at this point.
And all I hear is Medicaid takes everything so I'm pretty much left penniless and on the streets unless I pull some kind of moves to stop that from happening which equates to even more time I'm forced to deal with this.
Don't misunderstand me I love my mom very much but this is beyond anything I was expecting to be forced to deal with.
I can't help but to keep thinking mom didn't leave here like this, she was simply dumped on me in this condition and all I got was a "Good luck buddy" pat on the back.
It was 24 days, to me they broke her they need to return her in somewhat the condition they received her, I'm left to deal with all the new medications and this medical mess they somehow created.

I'm not the type but trust me I'm understanding why Caregivers are among the highest in suicide rates in the US.
It's tearing me up to even think about having to place mom in a home I know I'll never see her again, not that it seems to matter at this point anyways as the Dementia has her lost at who I am 85% of the time anyways.

Is it normal to just start crying all the time.?
When mom see's me breaking down she starts banging on whatever surface and demanding I get back to work, then smiles at me.
That really doesn't help the situation.

It wasn't like this before she went to that NH WTH did they do.?

I just think 24 days is a short time for all this to come about, it was literally like a light switch she went from able with aid to unable period.

She had a TIA but that was some years ago most likely the culprit to all her falls have been repeated UTI infections, she also suffers from stage 4 kidney disease, the local hospitals constantly send her home when I bring her in claiming nothing is ever wrong and like clock work two days later we're back in the ER and mom always has a UTI.......... those things don't sneak up on a person and yes they're doing a full panel each time so how they miss it is a mystery to me.

I've only had one meeting thus far with the social worker as far as job out of home that's not even possible, I can talk to the social worker about the other but this area we live in isn't exactly the place to find jobs, fast food and retail is about all there is........ this is a snowbird area of Fla I'm stuck in.

Medicaid doesn't want the home it's on leased land...... picky aren't they.
Lot fees alone eat up a huge portion of mom's income no way I could afford it on the jobs that are available in this area, my only option would be to leave the area altogether.

I appreciate the kind words but I really feel my options are limited if I could find a NH to place here under her supplemental insurance for days 21 thru 100 I'd have a fighting chance but the NH mom was in is chasing to almighty dollar.

I still have to wonder what about the Meds.?
They started her on 3 different Alzheimer’s meds I have no idea how those are affecting her once again it was drop her in my care and that "Good Luck Buddy" pat on the back.

Don't get me wrong I was expecting some confusion the first week or so back home but this is a whole new level that I've never seen and she's steadily getting worse, the moments of clarity are so few and only last seconds.

Really 24 days earlier she was dressing herself, bathing, brushing her teeth, caring for her dentures, making her bed, feeding herself (I cooked the meals), taking her own medications, going to the bathroom and now she's lucky if she remembers who I am or how many cats shes got, much less where she's actually at.

at this point I've got to somehow make it till Tuesday and speak with her doctor once again on this next followup.

One of the issues I'm struggling with is this is what mom wanted for years people to care for her every need and whim so when she demands things from me then smiles at me I'm having a really hard time figuring out if this is the Dementia or mothers way of getting things the way she wants them or what she feels she deserves and yes my mother was and always has been that petty in her life this is just complicating the situation cause I'm not sure if it's the boy that cried wolf syndrome, I don't think it is but that smile she gives off is pretty enraging to see.

To answer your questions
Yes, upscale mobile home park as they'd like to think it, and No... No minimum wage type job would pay for the Lot Fees in this park, plus the house is all but falling apart, it's all ankle biter crap but still, such as today for example the Central AC went out that's $3500 to replace as no one wants to repair it because it's around 10 years old, I don't see this place as an investment so I refuse to put any more money into it since we don't own anything (lets be honest this type of Trailer Park you really don't own anything.) and we don't have the money.
Luckily the Central AC gave me issues last year and I had purchased a large Window Unit Installed it then built a trellis around it to hide it from the HOA, But I've also been collecting Portable AC units so we've got 2 of those one is installed in my room once again hidden install so the HOA won't say anything and the other is ready to be installed into mom's room.
The Central unit does work but not in this heat we've been having around here lately, these homes are built to minimum code, sun beats on them all day long and you're dealing with solar heating, the other AC units cool better and have cost less in the past.
But ultimately, No couldn't afford to stay even if I wanted to and really I don't want to be in this state, only reason I am here was for my father who passed and now mom.

SHINE hasn't been much help, The NH was even less then helpful unless you were dangling cash in front of them then they'll take all your money and do as little as possible for your loved one, this NH didn't even want to talk about using my mothers supplemental Healthcare insurance which is provided as part of her retirement from a past employer because they wouldn't get the amount of money they wanted for days 21 thru 100......... The local NH's are shameful in more ways then one to be honest I could tell you some horror stories just off of my short visits to mom, but options are limited around this area.

Mom has already paid for her cremation that I don't have to worry about thank God.

I'm working with a home healthcare group on mom right now and they think it's probably time to get Hospice involved.

As far as Social Workers some are helpful most really aren't the one I've got working with me right now is Okay but still there's only so much even they can offer up that I haven't already thought of myself.

For right now I'm sticking it out the best I can I'm realizing my mother is in the severe Dementia stage not as the doctor claimed at the NH with his "Early Onset" this isn't "Early Onset" mom is dealing with.

Medical care in Fla, honestly you'd be better off bringing your loved one to the Vet around here.

Medicaid requirements are you need to have less then $3k in your bank account....... That's not an issue for us, but in return they want control of all of mom's finances, Might sound crazy but I really don't want to leave my mother in these peoples care if I can help it.

I know it sounds counter productive.

Hospice would be the best bet if we qualify, I'm calling them in the morning and I'm calling mom's insurance company to see if any other local NH's accept her insurance for possible placement of days 21 thru 100 which would give me enough time to build a bit of a stash.