my husband is in a unit and been there for four months now to gets his meds right still waiting for him to be stable said he wouldn't be coming home more likely to go into permanent care, if a home would take him, then asked me if I have thought about the future if I don't know what is happening to my husband how can I even think of me?
Although the nurse may have seemed to be noisy or possibly rude in her question to you, it may have been a good question to ask. I know you are worried sick about your husband and just want him well enough to return home, but what will you do if your husband cannot come home to you? Are you financially set to be able to continue to live on your own? How is your health? Do you have children or relatives that can help you with sorting all of this out and assisting you? If you have a close friend, relative, minister or lawyer perhaps you should ask someone to help you look at what your options might be. If you are prepared ahead of time it will make things easier for you and put your mind at ease.
God Bless You and Your Husband!
Just as a lighten up sidebar ....... nice handle. Flashbacks of life in the sixties and seventies.
Are you at the point of needing some extra care yourself? Now is the time to plan instead of waiting for some emergency. Give us more info about your situation if you want more specific advice from us.