My dad had a stroke a month ago. I live out of state so my aunt and a family friend were given power of attorney (medical&financial) since they live w him I figured it would be ok. The deal between all of us was that we would all communicate on everything regarding my dad's care. I wasn't worried about giving the family friend fin poa because we all thought my dad didn't have any $$. But now she's discovered he had some funds. I tried asking about his Financials and she's avoiding the question. Now the 2 of them have started selling my dad's things while he's in the hisp which I highly disagree w. They have now cut me off completely from knowing anything about what they are doing w my dad. We got into a huge fight. I don't know what to do. Do I have any rights?
First of all, a verbal agreement is worth nothing.
Secondly, a POA cannot/should not/must not discuss their principle's finances with someone else.
If you feel there is financial abuse going on here call APS. They will visit and will assess the work the POA is doing for the person who appointed him/her. If they find wrongdoing or suspect it they can ask a court to oversee and examine records.
Sale of the assets should be going to the accounts of the elder. This is easily checked by APS. Speak to them at your earliest convenience.
You currently don't have any "rights" regarding knowing about and managing your Dad's affairs. You'd need to pursue legal guardianship through the courts -- if he is incapacitated. I'm sorry for these circumstances, I hope you can get answers to your questions.
So in the meantime, I would make a trip sooner than later to go visit your dad and get a first hand view as to what exactly is going on with your dads money and things.
We can only hope that what is being done is in the best interest of your dad.