Sister is POA for financial for my mother and we need brother-in-law to step away and not be involved. How can I get this across to her as she is very upset and defensive about the subject. There is also myself and another sister involved in the caregiving of my mother. I have POA for my mother's medical needs.
Just thought of what my mother had said that she didn't want him involved but she does have some memory loss so one day she might say that and another day, maybe not.
If mom is competent, she can make her own decisions. Including excluding BIL from having an influence. Has anyone consulted an eldercare attorney?
It is the health care POA who has the authority to decide where Mom lives, BTW.