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I have FULL power of Attorney for my mother who lives in a nursing home in Estero, Florida. I was contacted last week by her head nurse about the flu shot. I was asked if they could give it to her along with another vax and I said NO you are not to give any flu shots or any vax to my mother! I went to see her and she told me that they gave her the flu shot on the 19th (September)! After I gave instruction not to! Also, These nurses administer medications I specifically tell them not to! They’re given without my consent. My mother had a stroke 7 years ago she is paralyzed on her left side and is unable to take herself potty and unable to stand alone. She is often neglected and left to sit in fecies sometimes up to 2 hours. I don’t know what to do and I don’t know what rights we have.. someone please help me. Thank you so much!
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Contact the ombudsman to speak with you if administration is unwilling or unable.
I do not know the rules of this nursing home.
It could be that there is a requirement for flu shots at this institution as there was when I was a nurse, at my hospital. Many places caring for the elderly have rules about vaccination against diseases that can easily be deadly to residents.
I am curious if you ASKED if they are required shots?

It is extremely difficult to deal with any institutionalized care, but even worse when you are attempting to do it long distance.

Q 2 hour checks are, sad to say, considered a norm in some places.
Can you tell me if your Mom is capable of putting on her light. Do know that her anecdotal reports to you may not ALWAYS reflect reality, but I must tell you also that the care overall isn't perfect in any institution.

I understand your desperation and frustration, and I am so sorry for it.
I wish you the best. The answer as to what you can do is only the best that you can, and you are DOING that. Again, I am sorry and I wish you the best.
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Your mother, with her health issues, is surely in danger of getting pneumonia and possibly dying from it. Flu and RSV often lead to pneumonia and hospitalization. If she catches either virus and spreads it to other patients, that puts them in danger as well. The nursing home is surely trying to protect ALL of their patient population from these serious diseases.

If you don't like it, move her. Stand up for your rights. But be fully aware of what your mother is facing if you do.
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