This is his third ALF. No matter how hard I try, he thinks its a hospital and that are supposed to be doing for him what they did in skilled nursing. This am he called and said "get me out of here. they aren't doing a thing for me". I have tried to explain, but now I think I should just change the subject?
Repeated over and over again ad nauseum.
Good luck. I've been there. Sometimes, it does get better.
I was not clear whether he is delusional about where he is, versus just unrealistic in his expectations. Actually, even in the hospital, you'll find they don't do it all for you any more either!