She doesn’t like anything she used to like and she won’t eat meat because she kind of chokes on it. I’m running out of ideals. I give her protein shakes to try to replace the meat, but she’s starting to turn her nose up to them too. Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated!
Cottage cheese, yogurt, Mac and cheese, beans peanut butter, Hummas.
But what others posted is better information.
Best of luck
I can tell you that the norm in aging is that they like to eat less and sleep more.
You tell us nothing about your mother, but do know that ability to taste and smell goes out often in elders and there is much less drive to get calories in while there is less activity going on for them.
I think your Mom is the best gage here of what might be good, so talk to her frequently about it. And keep healthy snacks around. Rice pudding, yogurts and fruit, Keifer and protein drinks, perhaps a nice chocolate ensure. Whip up a batch of mac and cheese, put in individual containers, and have them handy when mom needs a snack?
Other than that I wouldn't overthink or over worry this. You are looking at the long slow slide that is aging, and what you are seeing is more or less the norm. You would be amazed at how little the amount is needed to sustain life.
Sure do wish you and your mom best of luck in finding what is tasty and nutritious.
If the only reason she won't eat meat is because she chokes, then blend it a bit in a food processor and get it down to an easily consumed size and consistency.