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First, I'd check with her doctor to see if she has a UTI or something else going on. Maybe, she's depressed. Sometimes, meds can help.
I don't know the laws in your state, but, you might ask to discuss your concerns with the AL rep. When my LO did the things that you describe, the AL staff called ME to come and take care of it. I got calls every day, sometimes more. They had a rule about certain things and if she didn't abide by them, she couldn't stay. They could only spend so much time begging her to get up and dressed. They worked with her as best they could, but, eventually, it gets to the point, where her needs were greater than what the facility could provide. We had team meetings with the staff to discuss strategy, but, her dementia was progressing. And, she started wandering. So, her doctor re-evaluated her needs and prescribed Secure Memory Care. It was a huge improvement. The staff there were trained in caring for people who have dementia and she did so much better there. It was like night and day.
I'd discuss the options with someone who can recommend facilities that might better meet her needs. I'd keep in mind that at age 95, maybe, she wants to sleep in. I realize routine is important, but, I understand why they may want to sleep in. At the MC, my LO is given compassion and they work with her to make sure she's as happy as can be.
Does she want out of there? You could tell her a change might not be as nice. If a resident is not complying with basic living standards a facility really has no option but to have them leave. They are trying to create an environment that is pleasant. That means a few showers a week, dressing for meals unless they are ill, and general civil behavior. The opposite of that hurts the situation for other residents. A NH environment can't expect too much from residents as many are already too compromised health and or behavior wise.
ALs are just that, places where people need some assistance not 24/7 care. Their staff is limited because they are not suppose to have to deal with every resident. No facility, even privately owned, can force someone to do anything they don't want to. The State oversees all care facilities. We had one lose their Medicaid certification.
I think your Mom is passed what a AL can do for her. A LTC facility maybe better. Check out some in your area. I knew when I walked into the one we eventually placed Mom in, it was the one. Big common area. Big activities/dining area. The residents were clean and happy. Nothing is perfect but in hindsight we think we should have skipped the AL.
By proceeding, I agree that I understand the following disclosures:
I. How We Work in Washington.
Based on your preferences, we provide you with information about one or more of our contracted senior living providers ("Participating Communities") and provide your Senior Living Care Information to Participating Communities. The Participating Communities may contact you directly regarding their services.
APFM does not endorse or recommend any provider. It is your sole responsibility to select the appropriate care for yourself or your loved one. We work with both you and the Participating Communities in your search. We do not permit our Advisors to have an ownership interest in Participating Communities.
II. How We Are Paid.
We do not charge you any fee – we are paid by the Participating Communities. Some Participating Communities pay us a percentage of the first month's standard rate for the rent and care services you select. We invoice these fees after the senior moves in.
III. When We Tour.
APFM tours certain Participating Communities in Washington (typically more in metropolitan areas than in rural areas.) During the 12 month period prior to December 31, 2017, we toured 86.2% of Participating Communities with capacity for 20 or more residents.
IV. No Obligation or Commitment.
You have no obligation to use or to continue to use our services. Because you pay no fee to us, you will never need to ask for a refund.
V. Complaints.
Please contact our Family Feedback Line at (866) 584-7340 or ConsumerFeedback@aplaceformom.com to report any complaint. Consumers have many avenues to address a dispute with any referral service company, including the right to file a complaint with the Attorney General's office at: Consumer Protection Division, 800 5th Avenue, Ste. 2000, Seattle, 98104 or 800-551-4636.
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I don't know the laws in your state, but, you might ask to discuss your concerns with the AL rep. When my LO did the things that you describe, the AL staff called ME to come and take care of it. I got calls every day, sometimes more. They had a rule about certain things and if she didn't abide by them, she couldn't stay. They could only spend so much time begging her to get up and dressed. They worked with her as best they could, but, eventually, it gets to the point, where her needs were greater than what the facility could provide. We had team meetings with the staff to discuss strategy, but, her dementia was progressing. And, she started wandering. So, her doctor re-evaluated her needs and prescribed Secure Memory Care. It was a huge improvement. The staff there were trained in caring for people who have dementia and she did so much better there. It was like night and day.
I'd discuss the options with someone who can recommend facilities that might better meet her needs. I'd keep in mind that at age 95, maybe, she wants to sleep in. I realize routine is important, but, I understand why they may want to sleep in. At the MC, my LO is given compassion and they work with her to make sure she's as happy as can be.
I think your Mom is passed what a AL can do for her. A LTC facility maybe better. Check out some in your area. I knew when I walked into the one we eventually placed Mom in, it was the one. Big common area. Big activities/dining area. The residents were clean and happy. Nothing is perfect but in hindsight we think we should have skipped the AL.