If guardianship (that I have temporarily) was supposed to help me, then why am I still having trouble getting him into a nursing home?
I had one nursing home that said they would take dad two months ago but that I needed POA or guardianship since he refused. I decided against this one because there were some things I did not like. For example, uncleaned patient smells at different times of the day. The last time was right at lunch and it still reeked. Not only that there are ads in the paper for help wanted CNA, RN, LPN on every shift.
Then I decided to try the other one in my area that is smaller. Not 100% on this one because it showed at one time there were verbal abuse issues but not recently. I asked the primary to submit anyway. Well, the nursing home called me back stating they would not be able to admit him into long-term care without a hospital stay. Sigh!
Now I've asked the primary to submit to the last two (one that he was in previously (45-minutes away) and another one that is 30-minutes away). If both of these nursing homes come back stating the same, I'm afraid it'll be back to his home and having to deal with my siblings until something happens to require a hospital stay.
I've been trying the hospital route, last time November, and each time they said nothing could be found requiring admissions.
Before I start making arrangements for him to go back home, could anyone let me know if I may be missing some steps?
Hospice said they had a contractor with the one I want him in but now that nursing home is still saying not without already knowing he is approved for long-term care Medicaid. Of course, the long-term care Medicaid worker is saying not without him already being in a nursing home.
This is turning out to be a nightmare.
Latest update!
On Friday, I notified the doctor of what the nursing home I desired for dad said (required 3-day hospital stay). So then the primary called and said the previous nursing home and doctor (same clinic) is willing to accept him. And lordy mercy it has been a cry-baby sleepless weekend for me. This facility was so so and the doctor that is over that facility is the one that helped my sister over-medicate. So I'm not trusting. I know others on here say transfers can be done but I'm reading where some people on here are having trouble with getting transfers done.
But my hands may be tied to that facility for now. I'll know more tomorrow. The one I wanted still has not called me back since the previous statement.
Another thought I wondered about was whether getting him put under hospice would help with getting him better placement or at least a second set of eyes if I sent him back to the previous nursing home.
Where can I get a needs assessment done?
Sorry to hear about your mother. It is just so hard. Every part.
Does "dealing with your siblings" mean you will all have to share care taking duties and/or costs until you can get your dad placed? Yes, you might have to do that. You are fortunate if they will be of some help, even if they have to be pressured.
On the NH snafu…..Does he really truly need skilled nursing care?
So hospital has found no reasons at all to admit him?
Has he had a needs assessment done?
Most entries (like 70%) come into a NH via a hospitalization (MediCARE benefit) discharge to a NH for rehab (MediCARE benefit) and then they end up staying there and go from rehab patient (MediCARE) to long term care resident (private pay, LTC insurance or Medicaid). NHs are happy about this route as MediCARE rehab pays like double or triple what Medicaid ever would and rehab pretty much is a guaranteed given to run the full first 20/21 days at 100% Medicare paid. Then if they still need to continue rehab, MediCARE will pay 50% up to a max of 100 days & most of the time the patients secondary health insurance covers the other 50%. AND he will have a huge medical charts between his hospital stay and his rehab should he stay after rehab and become a LTC resident and apply to Medicaid. It’s a smoother transition.
This is mucho importante cause if he should need to apply to LTC Medicaid to pay for stay in a NH, Medicaid will review his charts &/or do an in-person needs assessment on him at the NH. If his chart does not clearly & in detail show him to be “at need” for skilled, then Medicaid will not pay. Medicaid will find him ineligible for medical requirements. Could this be part of the problem you are encountering?
A NH will take in a private pay resident (under a contract with guarantees) who is not quite needing skilled care if they are on the cusp between AL & NH or have Co-morbidities & up in age. But I’ve found most of these are facilities are totally & only private pay…. places that do not ever take Medicaid. They take Medicare but not ever Medicaid. So elder has lots of assets &/or thier kids/ POA does and everyone signs off on legally binding contract to pay for their stay. Often there is a substantial “buy in” or deposit required at a private pay facility.
But a NH that takes MediCARE & Medicaid doesn’t have this and really doesn’t want to take the risk of having a resident move in obstensibly “ok” for Medicaid and then find out 3-6 months later their application is denied…. that they are not “at need”… so not eligible and the resident has no $. The NH will have only gotten paid the residents SS mo income leaving a bill of thousands of $ a mo unpaid.
If he is going to need Medicaid to pay, he’s got to be “at need” both medically and financially for Medicaids requirements to be eligible. Most states LTC Medicaid programs are only for NH/skilled nursing care. If he doesn’t have a needs assessment done, I’d suggest that he has one done so you have a realistic idea of what placement is best or what needs to happen to have his chart be more accurate to his health status. Good luck.
Part of the trouble may also be places having openings. It there are not a lot of openings, the LTCs may be prioritizing those coming from a hospital. Just remember that staffing in all medical settings is a current issue - clinics, hospitals, and LTCs - all need more staff.
When I applied for Mom, I had 90 days to get her spent down, all info need to the caseworker and find a place. I was under the impression the day Medicaid took effect was the day I could move Mom in. What Mom did was pay 2 months privately and medicaid started the 3rd month.
I also have never heard that you need a 3 day stay in a hospital to get into a LTC facility. Rehab yes. I can see trying to get in Medicaid pending because there is no guarantee that Medicaid will except the person and then the facility is owed a big bill.
You may need an elder lawyer to help with getting Dad into a place. Next hospital stay pray he is in the 3 days. Have him transferred to a rehab that is attached to a LTC you like. Have him evaluated for 24/7 care and tell them he needs to be placed in LTC because there is no one to care for him. They cannot release him unsafely. Then you start the Medicaid application with the help of the SW but keep on top of things because Medicaid has a limit on how long you need to meet criteria.
Find out on which end he is not meeting criteria. Always easier to get a direct admit from another facility, ie, hospital, not home.
When my mom broke her hip and was hospitalized, we were advised by the discharge folks to ONLY look at places that would accept Medicaid as payment after a period of either Medicare or private pay, as shechad limited funds.
Admit staff person also mentioned getting him pre-approved for long-term care Medicaid. I told the lady his Medicaid worker threw out his application saying that long-term care could not be applied for until dad is in a nursing home. The Medicaid worker said a nursing home can be billing for services doing it that way and never accept the patient.
So those are the only two things she mentioned but I plan to call again.
I agree - get him in somewhere and then transfer if/when possible.
Good luck.