My mother’s husband passed away 4 years ago from ALS. She moved in with my husband and I the same weekend my daughter went to college. My mother doesn’t like my husband and doesn’t like to share my time. My daughter recently moved back home to pursue her masters. Every time I go with my husband or daughter my mother becomes jealous and angry. I feel stretched thin. I also work FT from home so I have very limited separation from the ongoing daily moodiness she brings into our home.
And here you are 4 years later and you're living to regret that decision. I could have spared you the trouble had you asked us if she should move in 4 years ago, as we all would have said a big fat NO!
But I digress, and like I said it's now water under the dam, so now it's time to get the ball rolling into getting your mom placed in either an assisted living facility or memory care. That way she can be around other folks her own age and you can get your home back and more importantly, your peace.
I wish you well in finding the right facility for your mom.
Or have Mom go to adult day care while you are working .