I am telling my mother that a potential caregiver is a "friend" of mine who has also gotten to know her and "I'd like her to stay with you when I'm out of the house, working, etc." Would love to have others share how they got the caregiver in the door.....I'm very flustered by this initial experience. Thanks.
It was really hard for her to accept someone in her home at first. Now, it is much easier. Of course, I screen carefully and assess personalities. For example, Mom appreciates someone who is upbeat, but does not like excessively chatty or nosey people.
You have to set yourself up for success when you choose an in-home caregiver.
good luck