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I. How We Work in Washington. Based on your preferences, we provide you with information about one or more of our contracted senior living providers ("Participating Communities") and provide your Senior Living Care Information to Participating Communities. The Participating Communities may contact you directly regarding their services. APFM does not endorse or recommend any provider. It is your sole responsibility to select the appropriate care for yourself or your loved one. We work with both you and the Participating Communities in your search. We do not permit our Advisors to have an ownership interest in Participating Communities.
II. How We Are Paid. We do not charge you any fee – we are paid by the Participating Communities. Some Participating Communities pay us a percentage of the first month's standard rate for the rent and care services you select. We invoice these fees after the senior moves in.
III. When We Tour. APFM tours certain Participating Communities in Washington (typically more in metropolitan areas than in rural areas.) During the 12 month period prior to December 31, 2017, we toured 86.2% of Participating Communities with capacity for 20 or more residents.
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Is a home for seniors better than home care? Are there homes that will help me until I need 24hr care when I'm mentally unable to take care of myself. Could I can remain in that home until I pass on? I don't want to be moved again.
You tell us that you are already unable to do anything independently. To me, at that point, and given I were alone, I would want to be in Board and Care or Assisted Living.
I so agree with cwillie and Geaton here. Much depends on your individual situation. Whether or not you have family nearby, can install some cameras to watch over your safety with a relative nearby monitoring those cameras to be certain all is well. Where you live, how safe your premises are, whether you have close neighbors to contact. Whether you can hire in help to go shopping and etc.
It is all dependent on your personal situation. Many things are things that only you can decide.
Who do you have to help. Is someone appointed as your POA so that, when you DO lose mental capacity, they can act for you?
First I have to ask..Is your house ready for you to age into it? Do you have stairs? Do you have a bathroom that is large enough to accommodate a wheelchair with enough room to turn around? Can it accommodate a Hoyer Lift? How about 1 or 2 more people in addition to you that may have to help you? Do you have wide halls, wide doorways? If no to these can you make changes easily and would you be willing to make the changes.
There are facilities that are "CCC" Continuing Care Communities. These will have Independent Living, Assisted Living, Memory Care, Skilled Nursing. There are many such communities do a search in your area and arrange a tour of a few of them. There are facilities that are just Independent Living and if you need a higher level of care you hire caregivers. There are facilities that have several care levels but if you go beyond what they can safely manage you will have to move. (most facilities can not use equipment to help in transfers)
Are you willing to have Caregivers come into your home? Can you afford caregivers? The cost will increase the more help you need and the longer you need help. (Caregivers can range from a few hours to round the clock.)
The best thing you can do now is make sure you have all your "legal ducks in a row" so that you have people that you have chosen that will to the best of their ability follow your wishes. Do know that no matter what you want now if doing what you want is not safe the person you have chosen to act in your best interest may have to chose another option.
I 100% agree with cwillie's assessment of facility vs. in-home care.
My 105 yr old Aunt was only able to stay in her home until the end because
1) she actually was still mobile (with a walker) with no health issues 2) she had 2 local nieces willing to provide the care inexpensively 3) she could afford to pay for their care month after month and support her household expenses 4) she had a willing and competent advocate and PoA
You will definitely need a PoA or guardian to manage your affairs. You need to find this person right now before you need advocacy. They need to be a full generation younger than you, local, willing, trustworthy and competent. So, you need to see a certified elder law attorney.
There are continuing care facilities that have both assisted living and nursing homes in the same building or compound, some even feature independent living apartments as well. The problem with needing help and remaining in your own home is that someone has to coordinate that care and fill in any gaps in duties not performed by your hired caregivers, including - shopping, organizing medications, transportation to doctors appointments, laundry, housekeeping, meal prep, home and yard maintenance, as well as any assistance needed with personal care. Not to mention staying in your own home can be incredibly isolating.
By proceeding, I agree that I understand the following disclosures:
I. How We Work in Washington.
Based on your preferences, we provide you with information about one or more of our contracted senior living providers ("Participating Communities") and provide your Senior Living Care Information to Participating Communities. The Participating Communities may contact you directly regarding their services.
APFM does not endorse or recommend any provider. It is your sole responsibility to select the appropriate care for yourself or your loved one. We work with both you and the Participating Communities in your search. We do not permit our Advisors to have an ownership interest in Participating Communities.
II. How We Are Paid.
We do not charge you any fee – we are paid by the Participating Communities. Some Participating Communities pay us a percentage of the first month's standard rate for the rent and care services you select. We invoice these fees after the senior moves in.
III. When We Tour.
APFM tours certain Participating Communities in Washington (typically more in metropolitan areas than in rural areas.) During the 12 month period prior to December 31, 2017, we toured 86.2% of Participating Communities with capacity for 20 or more residents.
IV. No Obligation or Commitment.
You have no obligation to use or to continue to use our services. Because you pay no fee to us, you will never need to ask for a refund.
V. Complaints.
Please contact our Family Feedback Line at (866) 584-7340 or ConsumerFeedback@aplaceformom.com to report any complaint. Consumers have many avenues to address a dispute with any referral service company, including the right to file a complaint with the Attorney General's office at: Consumer Protection Division, 800 5th Avenue, Ste. 2000, Seattle, 98104 or 800-551-4636.
VI. No Waiver of Your Rights.
APFM does not (and may not) require or even ask consumers seeking senior housing or care services in Washington State to sign waivers of liability for losses of personal property or injury or to sign waivers of any rights established under law.
I agree that:
A.
I authorize A Place For Mom ("APFM") to collect certain personal and contact detail information, as well as relevant health care information about me or from me about the senior family member or relative I am assisting ("Senior Living Care Information").
B.
APFM may provide information to me electronically. My electronic signature on agreements and documents has the same effect as if I signed them in ink.
C.
APFM may send all communications to me electronically via e-mail or by access to an APFM web site.
D.
If I want a paper copy, I can print a copy of the Disclosures or download the Disclosures for my records.
E.
This E-Sign Acknowledgement and Authorization applies to these Disclosures and all future Disclosures related to APFM's services, unless I revoke my authorization. You may revoke this authorization in writing at any time (except where we have already disclosed information before receiving your revocation.) This authorization will expire after one year.
F.
You consent to APFM's reaching out to you using a phone system than can auto-dial numbers (we miss rotary phones, too!), but this consent is not required to use our service.
To me, at that point, and given I were alone, I would want to be in Board and Care or Assisted Living.
I so agree with cwillie and Geaton here.
Much depends on your individual situation.
Whether or not you have family nearby, can install some cameras to watch over your safety with a relative nearby monitoring those cameras to be certain all is well.
Where you live, how safe your premises are, whether you have close neighbors to contact. Whether you can hire in help to go shopping and etc.
It is all dependent on your personal situation.
Many things are things that only you can decide.
Who do you have to help.
Is someone appointed as your POA so that, when you DO lose mental capacity, they can act for you?
Do you have stairs?
Do you have a bathroom that is large enough to accommodate a wheelchair with enough room to turn around? Can it accommodate a Hoyer Lift? How about 1 or 2 more people in addition to you that may have to help you?
Do you have wide halls, wide doorways?
If no to these can you make changes easily and would you be willing to make the changes.
There are facilities that are "CCC" Continuing Care Communities.
These will have Independent Living, Assisted Living, Memory Care, Skilled Nursing. There are many such communities do a search in your area and arrange a tour of a few of them.
There are facilities that are just Independent Living and if you need a higher level of care you hire caregivers. There are facilities that have several care levels but if you go beyond what they can safely manage you will have to move. (most facilities can not use equipment to help in transfers)
Are you willing to have Caregivers come into your home?
Can you afford caregivers? The cost will increase the more help you need and the longer you need help. (Caregivers can range from a few hours to round the clock.)
The best thing you can do now is make sure you have all your "legal ducks in a row" so that you have people that you have chosen that will to the best of their ability follow your wishes.
Do know that no matter what you want now if doing what you want is not safe the person you have chosen to act in your best interest may have to chose another option.
My 105 yr old Aunt was only able to stay in her home until the end because
1) she actually was still mobile (with a walker) with no health issues
2) she had 2 local nieces willing to provide the care inexpensively
3) she could afford to pay for their care month after month and support her household expenses
4) she had a willing and competent advocate and PoA
You will definitely need a PoA or guardian to manage your affairs. You need to find this person right now before you need advocacy. They need to be a full generation younger than you, local, willing, trustworthy and competent. So, you need to see a certified elder law attorney.