I posted a message couple minutes ago concerning my mother-in-law and my husband since she has been here I’ve been preparing meals three times a day doing as I’m supposed to do as a caretaker. She has not got a lot of salt and sugar over there and I see a lot of things that is happening here my husband is giving in because he knows it’s his mother and I think sometimes you need to slow go slowly I’m learning a lot about dementia, but I don’t know everything. He still thinks of her as when she was not sick. He gives her all these tomatoes with a lot of salt on it he gives her the strawberries with a lot of sugar and I’ve been trying to do strawberries and fruit with yogurt because of a throwing up issues I feel like he said, but we would work together, but all he does is defy me I told him we can’t do this. I need. I can’t keep doing this so now he’s giving me attitude because we have to put her in another facility and his brother told him that too that we have to do this because it ain’t fair to me or him.