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I am in need of a group of spouses trying to cope with a severe RLS partner. I can't find a support group for this and I need help. Does anyone know of a forum for this? Is there a discussion started here?
Please forgive me if my questions are ignorant but I am having trouble understanding what you are asking. My husband has had RLS for years, likely heart medication induced. He tried several meds to stop the symptoms for MY benefit because he was, incredibly, able to sleep right through them. They all had side effects that were worse than the RLS. We gave up on meds and moved into separate bedrooms. This was several years ago. I assume there are new medications available and apparently your husband is under a doctor’s care so he can access them if indicated.
Is your husband able to sleep in spite of the RLS? Are you looking for support for your own sleep deprivation even though you are now on different floors? Are you concerned about your husband’s behavior while either taking or withdrawing from RLS drugs and looking for an Nar-Anon type of group?
Thank you for the responses. I don't need help for him. I need help for me. It's much worse than you can imagine. The medications Drs have put him on has intensified his symptoms. It has affected his mind as well as his body. We already moved onto separate floors of the house. He has been through many many meds. Some they gave him were way more than recommended doses for 30 years and they pulled him off cold turkey. His withdrawal was horrendous. He also had heart disease and prostate cancer. I need a support group for me. Any help would be greatly appreciated.
My husband was given meds for his RLS and he disliked how they made him feel In general, so he stopped taking them.
Agingcare is a support group for caregivers of all kinds. If you feel you need an in person support group, Google "elder care support groups in _______your city".
Have you thought about getting him into respite care so you can have a vacation? Or placed in Assisted Living? Oftentimes, AL knows of support groups that meet in person. When caregi ing becomes too much, it's often necessary to place the sick spouse. There's no crime or shame in doing that.
Some medications can cause this. Some medications can help this. Therefore I would discuss with the doctor. Benadryl cause this for me.
Can you tell us what specifically is a problem with RLS that you feel is unique to hubby in that he might benefit from a special Forum devoted to it? I can't think you would find one.
As to former discussions go to the aqua timeline above, more to the right and press on the magnifying "search" glass. Type in Restless Leg Syndrome and see what others may have had to say.
Restless Leg Syndrome? My husband has it and moved into the spare bedroom. So it's all resolved. You can Ask your question in the Discussions category here if you'd like, but wait to see if you get responses first. I know of no support groups specifically for this, but you may want to Google it. Or at least get separate beds in the same bedroom so you're not awoken by kicking legs all night.
By proceeding, I agree that I understand the following disclosures:
I. How We Work in Washington.
Based on your preferences, we provide you with information about one or more of our contracted senior living providers ("Participating Communities") and provide your Senior Living Care Information to Participating Communities. The Participating Communities may contact you directly regarding their services.
APFM does not endorse or recommend any provider. It is your sole responsibility to select the appropriate care for yourself or your loved one. We work with both you and the Participating Communities in your search. We do not permit our Advisors to have an ownership interest in Participating Communities.
II. How We Are Paid.
We do not charge you any fee – we are paid by the Participating Communities. Some Participating Communities pay us a percentage of the first month's standard rate for the rent and care services you select. We invoice these fees after the senior moves in.
III. When We Tour.
APFM tours certain Participating Communities in Washington (typically more in metropolitan areas than in rural areas.) During the 12 month period prior to December 31, 2017, we toured 86.2% of Participating Communities with capacity for 20 or more residents.
IV. No Obligation or Commitment.
You have no obligation to use or to continue to use our services. Because you pay no fee to us, you will never need to ask for a refund.
V. Complaints.
Please contact our Family Feedback Line at (866) 584-7340 or ConsumerFeedback@aplaceformom.com to report any complaint. Consumers have many avenues to address a dispute with any referral service company, including the right to file a complaint with the Attorney General's office at: Consumer Protection Division, 800 5th Avenue, Ste. 2000, Seattle, 98104 or 800-551-4636.
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APFM does not (and may not) require or even ask consumers seeking senior housing or care services in Washington State to sign waivers of liability for losses of personal property or injury or to sign waivers of any rights established under law.
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My husband has had RLS for years, likely heart medication induced. He tried several meds to stop the symptoms for MY benefit because he was, incredibly, able to sleep right through them.
They all had side effects that were worse than the RLS. We gave up on meds and moved into separate bedrooms.
This was several years ago. I assume there are new medications available and apparently your husband is under a doctor’s care so he can access them if indicated.
Is your husband able to sleep in spite of the RLS?
Are you looking for support for your own sleep deprivation even though you are now on different floors?
Are you concerned about your husband’s behavior while either taking or withdrawing from RLS drugs and looking for an Nar-Anon type of group?
My husband was given meds for his RLS and he disliked how they made him feel In general, so he stopped taking them.
Agingcare is a support group for caregivers of all kinds. If you feel you need an in person support group, Google "elder care support groups in _______your city".
Have you thought about getting him into respite care so you can have a vacation? Or placed in Assisted Living? Oftentimes, AL knows of support groups that meet in person. When caregi ing becomes too much, it's often necessary to place the sick spouse. There's no crime or shame in doing that.
Best wishes.
Can you tell us what specifically is a problem with RLS that you feel is unique to hubby in that he might benefit from a special Forum devoted to it? I can't think you would find one.
As to former discussions go to the aqua timeline above, more to the right and press on the magnifying "search" glass. Type in Restless Leg Syndrome and see what others may have had to say.
Best of luck to you.