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Since you give us no specifics, I will just say that children should never use any of their own money to pay for care for their parents as they will need it for their own care as they age.
If your parent needs financial help, they/you should apply for Medicaid for whatever care they are requiring.
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1. First of all, we need more info
Does elder live with you in your home?
Do you live with elder in their home?
2. What current is the financial difficulty. The elder will likely be on SS? Is this not enough to sustain for them? Are there other funds?

If you will tell us the issue here we can reply. Otherwise your question is general to the point I can only advise you TWO THINGS:
1. Do not under any circumstances use your OWN funds; you will need every cent of that money for your own old age; it takes a lifetime of savings.
2. If you are living with the parent or the parent with you there needs to be a solid legal contract of care stipulating what you will be given in shared living costs, in caregiving costs. This is for your protection so you don't end penniless in a shelter, and for you elder's protection so that he or she isn't denied Medicaid help due to accusations of having GIFTED you money.

Do tell us about your SPECIFIC concerns and we can be of more help to you. Meanwhile will simply wish you the best of luck.
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Pinegirl

Always start with the knowledge that each person is responsible for the expense of their own care, no matter how much money or how few resources they have.

If they have a physical or mental disability that prevents them from caring for themself, they might find social services in their community or state that will help them. Know that what is available in each community and state can be different from what others find in their locale.

When a person has both financial need and physical need to the level outlined by their state Medicaid program, then Medicaid will step in. In order to document these needs for physical/mental disability, there will be a need for medical care.

When an individual is unwilling to seek medical care and appears to be in harms way, then Adult Protective Services can be called for an evaluation/intervention.

If you click on the link Paying For Care under your post, you will find many articles, possible resources and questions/answers on this topic. It is probably one of the most often asked questions on the forum.

Welcome to the forum.
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Your parent should be contributing towards their care, if not paying for it entirely. Otherwise, you can apply for Medicaid on their behalf.

Unless you provide more details, you cannot get good and helpful comments.
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