My sister has not been paying attention to her finances. Recently she has been spending excessively and struggle to remember what she bought. This is new behavior and although I am her POA, she does not want me handle her money now. She says that she is working on it but I have had to step in. Given that I am the younger sister there is pushback. I need advise for this transitioning behavior.
And if she is living alone you may have to have this discussion with her as well.
It may not be safe for her to be living alone.
There is no easy way to do this and she is not going to like it.
The fact that you are so distant from her you do not really know what other problems she is having.
“Hey sis, the bank gave us this new card. It’s safer than the old card.”
My uncle decided to get a separate card (debit) and set a limit. She could only shop with the new limit.
Best wishes to you.