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I have the right to have a life to I'm missing out on my kids years priceless times my brother is the struggle 😪 I can walk from mother but my brother was always there for me and he was awesome to my kids and growing up he was so abused and she allowed it yet he still did everything for are mother and all he is to her is a social security disability check and I care for him and her so she keeps her house using her children to suit your needs even if they're disability and sick

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I agree that if there is financial abuse here that is reportable. But do remember that if he has ANY income, and is living with his mom? Then there ARE shared living costs. It's always best when there's some sort of legal care contract; but that is so seldom done.
Ways for you to intervene for the GOOD here? Perhaps a bag of groceries here and there, a ride into the country with brother, some outings with him, lunch, the movies, gardening, art, cooking together, and making his life better.
If your visits, however add to the dissention then that isn't a help. If you are there with good cheer, good food, help with the household, then that IS good.

You don't at present have a question for us really, so I will simply wish you the very best of luck, and hope you come back if you have a question.
I am not certain if you are using some speech-enabled device to post to us here? But the lack of punctuation really makes post of any importance difficult to read. So I would carefully type out any individual questions you may have for us in order to get better and more succinct answers.

Wishing you good luck. Remember, family trauma-drama is actually kind of a norm in a lot of lives. Like weather systems, stuff comes and goes. If the base is supportive, that's what is important.
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If there's abuse going on report it to the police or APS, or a doctor/nurse/social worker who are all mandated reporters.

You ask for legal advice but have you done the basics, like reporting it? We aren't lawyers, we don't even know your ages and what state you are living in. You need to prove more info for context so that we know how to guide you.
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