My mom can not move, talk or pucker her lips, and grab my hand. Is it ok to ask her if she can do those things to see if she still can?
My mom can no longer pucker her lips. She's like a mummy she used to be able to lift her hands and when I look at her move side to side her eyes just go straight when I try to move her head side to side it was really stiff. Is it okay if I ask her questions like Mom can you hear me when can you squeeze my hand things like that. is that a good idea or bad
Have you called hospice? If not, you should. Today.
If there is a change, I would do as hugemom has suggested and call an ambulance or get her to the hospital or doctor ASAP. Unless your mom is on hospice care, I would try and get her to a doctor to have her condition reviewed.
Has she had a stroke (CVA) in the past? That could be another reason why she is unable to move or talk or hold your hand.
Have you read anything on the different stages of Alzheimer's? Try Alz.org for more information.