Should mom know the cat has to be put to sleep? She doesn’t see the cat much as he hides in the basement. Family would like the vet to come to the house and put the cat to sleep in front of mom. I think it’s bad for her memory but will relive seeing this? Any suggestions?
Just take her cat to the vets and have it put down there, and if mom asks about her cat, you just tell her that he/she must be hiding in the basement. And you tell her again and again that same answer anytime she asks.
And you can always buy her one of those life like battery operated cats that she can have sit on her lap and will purr when she rubs it.
I do not think it is a good idea either. Just another disagreement with siblings on how to handle this. I wanted to know if I was having ill feelings about their decision bc my feelings may be masked by everything else that is going on.
By the time I got back on here to read all of your suggestions, my sister and brother already made the decision and had the vet come to the house and put the cat to sleep. Mom was disturbed about it and I said it was wrong to do that at the house, when in the past few months the cat went to the vet in a carrier.
No. Your mother should not be told and certainly she should not watch.
It never fails to shock me when grown adults have to ask a question like this. Really it does.
By the time I got back on here to read all of your suggestions, my sister and brother already made the decision and had the vet come to the house and put the cat to sleep. Mom was disturbed about it and I said it was wrong to do that at the house, when in the past few months the cat went to the vet in a carrier.
Have a Vet check the cat for any illnesses, then take the cat to a local no-kill animal shelter or cat rescue group. Even senior cats find new homes. Many years ago we adopted a 12 year old cat from the shelter. Our current one was 9 when he came here to live.
I thought the idea of it was to do what was in the best interest of mom, but I don't really think doing this at her home was good for her at all
This was really cruel to have someone sick experience this even if they remember the incident or not.
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