She has COPD and is very anxious which I’ve been saying she needs to get meds to help her. Can my sister in law prevent her from using the phone? We would like to check in with her daily and the phone continues to ring with no answer. Now when she does answer my sister in law is in the room and my MIL says I can’t talk now. She doesn’t have a safety pendant and if home alone at times and I’m really concerned. My husband is not a POA and my sister in law says it’s none of his business when he asks questions because he isn’t the POA. We just want her to be safe and talk to her daily. We are very concerned for her well being and safety. Do we have the right to be concerned? My mother in law said she wants a phone so she can talk to people.