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I confronted him. He hit me knocking me down.I have another brother. We all 3 agreed to pay her mortgage and life insurance. He now says he will pay 1/3 of the insurance and nothing on the mortgage. What can I do?
Hi Dsullivan, when you brother knocked you down, you should of called the police.
But I have a lot of questions. It seems you may be having a hard time figuring out how to navigate the forum. Keep playing around with it and reading others post and you will figure it out.
Your moms in a nursing home now?
Your brother was her full-time caregiver?
Is he POA?
Did your brother get paid anything or any compensation for taking care of your mom for 5 years? I think he should have, but that doesn't mean it's right.
Did he loose his job, to care for your mom?
Did you and your brother help him?
Under this it will say reply to anxietynacy. Touch that to answer me
I'm not going to ask the same questions Alva is asking in her response to your post because she pretty much asked everything I would.
If your brother was your mother's caregiver for five years, he had a right to get paid for his caregiving services. He does not however have a right to lay hands on you or anyone else for that matter. You should have went directly to the police and pressed charges because that is assault.
This, of course, is criminal. You go to the police, your local sheriff or the DA. You also report the assault. What else would you possibly do with a criminal? Moreover, you do this at the time it happens, not after writing a Forum. The police will want to know why you didn't report this assault right away. You can also call APS (Adult Protective Services) and ask that they examine brother's records and assume protection of your elder.
The minute I was hit I would call the police and make an assault report. No way I’d let that go. With your mother in nursing home care, there’s no reason to continue paying for her home when she can no longer live there. It needs to be sold to provide funds to pay for her ongoing care. Have no more business dealings with your clearly unstable, criminal brother. Find a good elder care lawyer and communicate through the lawyer only.
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APFM does not endorse or recommend any provider. It is your sole responsibility to select the appropriate care for yourself or your loved one. We work with both you and the Participating Communities in your search. We do not permit our Advisors to have an ownership interest in Participating Communities.
II. How We Are Paid.
We do not charge you any fee – we are paid by the Participating Communities. Some Participating Communities pay us a percentage of the first month's standard rate for the rent and care services you select. We invoice these fees after the senior moves in.
III. When We Tour.
APFM tours certain Participating Communities in Washington (typically more in metropolitan areas than in rural areas.) During the 12 month period prior to December 31, 2017, we toured 86.2% of Participating Communities with capacity for 20 or more residents.
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You have no obligation to use or to continue to use our services. Because you pay no fee to us, you will never need to ask for a refund.
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But I have a lot of questions. It seems you may be having a hard time figuring out how to navigate the forum. Keep playing around with it and reading others post and you will figure it out.
Your moms in a nursing home now?
Your brother was her full-time caregiver?
Is he POA?
Did your brother get paid anything or any compensation for taking care of your mom for 5 years? I think he should have, but that doesn't mean it's right.
Did he loose his job, to care for your mom?
Did you and your brother help him?
Under this it will say reply to anxietynacy. Touch that to answer me
If your brother was your mother's caregiver for five years, he had a right to get paid for his caregiving services. He does not however have a right to lay hands on you or anyone else for that matter. You should have went directly to the police and pressed charges because that is assault.
You go to the police, your local sheriff or the DA.
You also report the assault.
What else would you possibly do with a criminal?
Moreover, you do this at the time it happens, not after writing a Forum. The police will want to know why you didn't report this assault right away.
You can also call APS (Adult Protective Services) and ask that they examine brother's records and assume protection of your elder.