I am also taking care of my mom for the last 5 years, even though me and my sister (who lives 2 Km away from her) have both POA. She decided not to look into her matters, so I am by myself (luckily my husband and my son are helping me) with all the things/trips to the Doctors, etc. The good thing is that she lives in a retired building across from the nursing home, so she gets help from the social workers. I want to share with you guys, and ask for your opinion what is recently happening. As I mentioned earlier, my sister doesn't want to get involved in my mom's life for the past 5 years; however since Nov 2017 she took $10,000 from my mom's account, in the presence of my mom. I have to admit I am so stupid, since I'd left the bank card with my mom, when this first happened (Nov 2017). So, today she decided to go to my mom and take her to the bank and withdraw another $5,000. I am just desperate and don't know what to do, please advise. I do not have any relationship with my sister/family, also for the past 5 years, how can I with these type of people... Thanks so much! Elena